Thursday, June 20, 2019

The family that ignores you.



Don't worry about the family that ignores and acts like you don't matter. Love the ones who are always there for you, no matter what.

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Unknown said...

The only person in my immediate family is my Mum
My brothers and their families pretty much ignore me and would never be thete for me

Anonymous said...

I love all my family, so sad there is one who thinks I don’t, I think he needs to do a lot of thinking and realize I have always been there for him and his family, but slips his mind always, we shall see in the long run what happens.

Anonymous said...

Amen because they sure are lots fake people in these home AMEN

dasu love said...

i love all the famly

Unknown said...

Or don't worry about people who say they will be your family and then when you don't do things their way. They desert you like you are nothing

Anonymous said...

Some families jump to conclusions without all the facts, then they leave things that way without getting the facts. So ๐Ÿ˜ข

Anonymous said...

My family all went away after my daddy died �� seems he held us together ! Now they don't speak to me unless someone dies !! It's crazy when you treat your family like that !! Like what what did I do so bad that you quit having anything to do with me ? The whole world likes me ...but my family don't it's crazy !! I just don't understand ! I guess one day someone will tell me ...or maybe they will let me die old and grey not knowing ? Either way they missed out on a really nice person !! ME ��

Anonymous said...

The only time my extended family invites me to an event, is when a gift is expected, or I am expected to buy something they're selling at their "party." Other than that, they don't know me. They treated my mother the same way. To this day, none of them ever contact me. I am grateful for my church family, because they treat me much nicer! I would advise anyone who is reading these comments to consider that - find a Bible-believing church to attend regularly, and you'll experience real family love, in God's Family. You will find love that exceed all expectations!

Unknown said...

That is so true. Since coming out my family have ignored me

Anonymous said...

Death changes everything, especially people in your family. My relationship with my daughter fell apart when my son died and then her dad died two years later. I just have to pray it will all work out for good one day.

Anonymous said...

The shock of having your children turn against you is devastating. To believe lies from someone who has hated you for over 10 yrs and another someone you dont even know to turn against the people who loved you, raised you, sacrificed for you, protected you, and were there for you is unbelievable. Thankfully our daughter refuses to play along. She and her family are our joy. Praying the boys open their eyes before it's too late.

Unknown said...

My brother and sister, without explanation, have turned their back on our 96 year old mother. They've done the same with the others but we can't be bothered. Sad for mom to try to figure it out at her age.

karensbiz said...

Oh so true! I need a church family so badly!!!

Anonymous said...

It was such a relief to see the countless folks who had posted their familial relationship experience. I thought for a while I was completely alone in my struggles. I had always been good to my family, nuclear and extended. I was the "go-to" person anytime they wanted to enjoy the city so to speak. I compromised my own future in order to always take care of theirs needs before mine. I left nothing to myself. However, in spite of my enormous love for them, it had been reciprocated with betrayals and condemnation on my lack of greed. I never shared their penchant for valuing the material things. I was different from the pack. Unfortunately, both sides of my family shared the same interest for earthly possessions, which I never valued. Kindness was the only currency I valued and nothing else.

Anonymous said...

My 2 Sons ignore me,I'm just Heartbroken,I don't know how to deal with this

Anonymous said...

This read just like if I I wrote it!! I'm sure my daddy is pissed off about it too that as soon as his insurance came in after his death, offspring who had very little to do with anything in the past finally slithered out of their holes and acted like they deserved SOMETHING. As well, they turned MY egg donor against me (the level headed one who took care of Dad for five months 24/7 before he passed) and my husband and children... all for the love of money. My own "mother" hasn't even acknowledged the DAY I was born after Dad died and the vultures moved in, let alone the fact that I name MY daughter after the "mother"!!
Karma will find it's way to them. Losing one parent is bad enough but when the other one shits on you afterwards, it's pitiful and painful.
She has missed 7 years of our lives and my grandchildren.
Very very sad and pathetic.

Anonymous said...

I lost both my parents. They had moved to another state and after 2-3 yrs I moved there. I stayed with them and then married and moved down the road from them. We helped one another through the years. My sisters stayed in the original state so there was resentment there. When my parents died I received the majority of things which lead to hard feelings and then my older sister died. My younger sister just visited and I have cried for days. My kids don't want to hear it and I am single tending to the house and farm that my son was suppose to do. I feel so deserted because I always did everything to try to keep the peace and there is no one for me to lean on now. My parents died together in a car accident with a tractor trailer. Family? My parents were my true family and my sisters were selfish people who only looked out for themselves and then got upset because they did not live near my parents, did not spend time with them but when we were growing up...they coud not wait to leave.

O.J. said...

You are absolutely correct!Church friend become family. Game that never turns their back on you. God bless you. ❤

Anonymous said...

After my dad died in 1991. My family fell apart. My mom remarried and out of us four kids, I was the only one to stick by her side.Now as Thanksgiving came and went I had to tell her to go to my brothers home for Thanksgiving.She lives in Florida, I live In NC. As my brother lives the next town over.My mother doesn't understand my depression or anxiety. She makes me feel guilty because my brother has seizures,but he drinks and I dont want to be around that. I want mom to see how hard it is to handle my brother and his comments about his life. Praying for all.

Anonymous said...

Before my husband and I got married we were traveling back and forth fo visit each other. 17 hour drives and me in Canada and him in the state's. When I would go down there it was great his father would drag me all over the place. We used to have so much fun. Now that we got married and my husband moved here my parents welcomed him with open arms when he moved in. We now just visit his parents and now dont exist to them. I try and spend time with my father in law when my husband isn't around and he pretty much ignores me and walks out of the room, when we go to leave to come home after visiting it feels like hes just rolling his eyes when I try to give him a hug. He calls I try talking to him about different things and all he does is ask for my husband.

Anonymous said...

My Father is a rotten person. His whole life has been all about him. I could never accomplish enough in his eyes that I never remember once in my life that he ever said that he was proud of me. He is 95 years old now and I can't wait for him to die.

Unknown said...

I believe you're right.

Unknown said...

They need to grow up. I'm so sorry

Broken said...

Yes, my entire family haven't spoken to me in 5 years. I was devastated,they say I don't care, but i have tried and tried for the past 5 years. I am not perfect by a long shot, but i didnt deserve to be out casted, my mum is the ring leader, sits with my kids and tells them how pathetic I am. What mother/grandmother does that.
I miss them terribly, and my life is empty without them.
Met my partner 2 years ago and his family have been my rock, it is them who showed me I'm not a bad person, my mother in law has shown me what the love of a good mother is, i still try and contact my kids regularly but it just tears me up inside. I love them more than anything in the world, they just won't believe it

Anonymous said...

A family that ignores you is not a family! Families should be bond by love.it hurts the most when you are ignored by any family member! Unfortunately it happens a lot these days!

Helen๐Ÿ˜ said...

When you look at them if they werent family would they be the type of person you would friend? We dont choose to be related to these people it happens. I no longer feel guilty about not wanting anything to do with my brothers. Spend time with those who value you wether thats family or friends.accepting this really does set you free x

Helen๐Ÿ˜ said...

Sell up. Live for you. Who.knows what can hapoen as you are fully aware. Kids carve thier own path and if you wait for them your life passes by. Grab new opportunty take a deep breath and take a leap. Good luck

Anonymous said...

Are they ignoring you or did you ignore them and push them away?

Anonymous said...

You sound like a truly beautiful individual. The earth needs more of you.

Anonymous said...

Broken
My son has also turned against me for believing lies by so called family members at that!My family are the King's and Queens of drama,gossip,and adding and adding more to the gossip!! Not to mention the negative energy ,judgmental,hypracritical people ever! And what's sad about it all I have been dealing with bad harassing acts from my ex...and struggles depression,then Covid hits home....I lost my job ,even lived without electricity for 2 1/2 weeks ...and not one member in my family gave a shit about any of my struggles that came my way....instead it's like I'm down on the ground reaching my hand up for help and instead I get kicked and kicked to where I can't get up .I'm still trying to figure out why all the hate..did I miss something here? So it's so very true in times like these you will definitely see the true colors in people ! Fakeness has become real popular these past years! I don't have no hate in me but I don't belong no more in this family!!!God bless them all!

Unknown said...

I know the feeling of being left out. Like today about 30 minutes ago I asked my granddaughter about her grandpa my ex. When was he getting back from out of town? She says nxt Monday and i was like oh so she proceeds to tell me that her mom my daughter was going to be mad because apparently my granddaughter,her kids and my ex are suppose to go to west TX. So I asked my granddaughter how she was going who was going to drive because my granddaughter doesn't drive out of town long distances. She says oh my mom was guna drive down and pick us up cuz her bday is next Mon. And shes guna be mad beca use gpa(my ex)is supposed to go and he won't be here or be back by Mon.i said oh I didnt know that. So there you have it my own daughter nor my granddaughter mentioned these plans to me because I wasn't invited or included. I just found out today because I asked my granddaughter about my ex. Her grandpa. SMH they always exclude me and I'm the one that's always there for them always helping and gpa who doesn't do squat is included or invited to family events and I get the shit end of the stick!!!

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