It can also mean that they've hurt you so much you can't even respond because they've knocked the wind out of you. Normallyl when you're angry you can fight back
I too am out of words, silence is my refuge from hurt - some people just dont deserve the energy it takes to form the words i need to say as much as i would like to talk to them. Wasted energy until they are ready to listen i say...
Wish I could talk to the person who hurt me, but that person refuses to talk. I get ignored for days at a time, but not deserving of this treatment. I just cry for days on end!
They are probably hurting just as much and don't know how else to respond to the wall you've created. Tear down the wall because you love one another and life is too precious to waste one more moment apart! Be willing to go to them and apologize for the hurts you may have caused too.
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this is so true
Indeed it is...sadly
I'm sad that my family doesn't understand that.
ditto....
It can also mean that they've hurt you so much you can't even respond because they've knocked the wind out of you. Normallyl when you're angry you can fight back
If you are hurt, you should talk to them. Silence solves nothing.
Silence is the wall that protects you from further hurt!
You say I should talk with them because silence solves nothing. Silence is all I have left. I'm outta words.
I too am out of words, silence is my refuge from hurt - some people just dont deserve the energy it takes to form the words i need to say as much as i would like to talk to them. Wasted energy until they are ready to listen i say...
i agree, im tired with no energy for any inspired effort even writing...
You use it when u have done all that u can in your power. Life is too short to waste it on talking about issues u can not change.
Wish I could talk to the person who hurt me, but that person refuses to talk. I get ignored for days at a time, but not deserving of this treatment. I just cry for days on end!
They are probably hurting just as much and don't know how else to respond to the wall you've created. Tear down the wall because you love one another and life is too precious to waste one more moment apart! Be willing to go to them and apologize for the hurts you may have caused too.
That is so true I prove that many times.
I agree Anon, Silence is child like, talking is being an adult. Saying nothing as you say solves nothing, the problem only festers and grows.
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