Saturday, April 6, 2013

Knowing When To Close The Account

If you allow the people in your life to make more emotional
withdrawls than deposits, you will soon find yourself
in negative equity.

You need to know when to close the account.

Don't allow anyone to drain you emotionally.

12 comments:

Anonymous said...

So true!!!

Anonymous said...

Truly! Do not allow the black holes of emotional need suck you down into their vortex. If the partner in your relationship is not putting any equity into the relationship and only taking, then you need to minimize your losses and cut them loose! The analogy above is correct, only the circumstances are changed to suit the situation.

Anonymous said...

Easier said than done, sometimes!

Anonymous said...

AMEN !!!

Anonymous said...

I recently set a boundary just last week (which was very uncomfortable for me) they showed up in my driveway yesterday unannounced and uninvited! Uhhhg! Maybe i am the problem by allowing it! Duh!

Anonymous said...

BTW.... this is not an intimate relationship, it is a family member! !!

Anonymous said...

Most time it is Family that abuses it most.

Anonymous said...

I have closed my account a man that I had been seeing, came to find out that he was seeing three woman, I'm sorry but I'm nobody's fool he seemed like he was a deceit guy even a friend of his was honest enough to tell me, but I kind of expected it certain signs, so I closed the account

Anonymous said...

true. dealing with someone like this will only drain you...

Anonymous said...

Let us not be the one on whom others must close the account...

Anonymous said...

To all those I work with, are friends with and LOVE

Anonymous said...

getting ready to close my account after 20 years candtdo this no more don't need to support a spouse who just keeps taking and gives nothing in return