Please come up with some words of sympathy and empathy for mother's who have lost adult children. Some of the words we are told by our own families about how we should grieve. Unbelievable, we are told to go out and volunteer, go here go there. But for some of us we just need to go through our grief in our own ways. It is the worst possible nightmare a mother has to go through. It physically hurts as well as it's heartbreaking. We think about our dead child every single day. They don't ever mention their names, like as if we can forget about them. There are books out there they can read. If they only walked in our shoes for an hour they would go crazy, just like we have. It's bad here in the States. We are treated like if they got too close to us it will happen to them. And we are not strong, we've had no choice!... Thank You
This relates to me. except I didn't lose my child as an adult I lost my child as an infant she was 7 weeks old. my family completely alienated me and act as if my baby girl never even existed. 3 months after she passed away I was told by my own mother that I need to get over it and move on. but the thing is I will never get over it and I will never be able to move on without her. I think of her every moment of everyday and I will not let anybody take that away from me
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Please come up with some words of sympathy and empathy for mother's who have lost adult children. Some of the words we are told by our own families about how we should grieve. Unbelievable, we are told to go out and volunteer, go here go there. But for some of us we just need to go through our grief in our own ways. It is the worst possible nightmare a mother has to go through. It physically hurts as well as it's heartbreaking. We think about our dead child every single day. They don't ever mention their names, like as if we can forget about them. There are books out there they can read. If they only walked in our shoes for an hour they would go crazy, just like we have. It's bad here in the States. We are treated like if they got too close to us it will happen to them. And we are not strong, we've had no choice!... Thank You
This relates to me. except I didn't lose my child as an adult I lost my child as an infant she was 7 weeks old. my family completely alienated me and act as if my baby girl never even existed. 3 months after she passed away I was told by my own mother that I need to get over it and move on. but the thing is I will never get over it and I will never be able to move on without her. I think of her every moment of everyday and I will not let anybody take that away from me
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