Sad, but True. I wish I could keep silent during these times but we never know when these times will occur and I get so involved with trying to get through to that person and I don't catch their glimpse of confusion until it's right into front of my face and by that time the point I was trying so desperately to make has already began to fall apart and the misunderstanding is on! And there I sit and wonder..why didn't I keep my mouth shut ??!!
In the last 3 years I have experienced this at least weekly, people ask to be polite....then you watch their eyes glaze over.... Please don't ask politly when you don't want to REALLY know. I used to be on the verge of tears all the time because you realize they really don't want to hear it. Better to feel people don't want to know than to look in someones eyes and see...... it is just them being "polite" Cancer is a Horrible thing to go through without support. But...support that is begrudged is sooo painful to the person who realizes you don't want to hear it....you were just being polite
Love yourself.do the things u love to do.youll find happiness if you take the steps towards getting there.dont let him win and make u unhappy.if u love yourself,the pain hes trying to cause wont phase you.learn from what he did to make u unhappy.ull find happiness and love and everything you want out of life..go out there and get it:) have an amazing beautiful day.
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so true for so many
so tru
Sad, but True. I wish I could keep silent during these times but we never know when these times will occur and I get so involved with trying to get through to that person and I don't catch their glimpse of confusion until it's right into front of my face and by that time the point I was trying so desperately to make has already began to fall apart and the misunderstanding is on! And there I sit and wonder..why didn't I keep my mouth shut ??!!
This just hit front and center. Thanks, Dave. I know what to do, now. I think God spoke through you just now. How fitting.
In the last 3 years I have experienced this at least weekly, people ask to be polite....then you watch their eyes glaze over....
Please don't ask politly when you don't want to REALLY know. I used to be on the verge of tears all the time because you realize they really don't want to hear it. Better to feel people don't want to know than to look in someones eyes and see...... it is just them being "polite"
Cancer is a Horrible thing to go through without support. But...support that is begrudged is sooo painful to the person who realizes you don't want to hear it....you were just being polite
Thanks Dave (this comes from another Dave :) ) This is so true.
Unfortunately that is the case. Can be frustrating I know.
this so true for me. I have been hurt so bad in a relationship that i don't know how to feel happy anymore
Love yourself.do the things u love to do.youll find happiness if you take the steps towards getting there.dont let him win and make u unhappy.if u love yourself,the pain hes trying to cause wont phase you.learn from what he did to make u unhappy.ull find happiness and love and everything you want out of life..go out there and get it:) have an amazing beautiful day.
seems to me that one doesn't have to" understand I"n order to "feel "the pain of another..
Michelle
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