Monday, April 1, 2013

It's Them, Not You

When someone puts you down and treats you badly,
just remember there is something wrong with them, not you.

Decent people will not go around destroying other
human beings because they will respect others feelings.

21 comments:

Anonymous said...

How so true!!!!!

Anonymous said...

Absolutely! ... Never forget it!

Anonymous said...

I can't believe this is the first thing I see when I haven't been on Facebook in awhile mostly cuz of computer issues but I thought 2 myself how does Dave's page & website know exactly the uplifting things I need 2 hear when I really need it! You let me know the things I've been doing are the right things I need 2 b doing & I'm on the right path cuz I get down on myself thinking maybe they r right & it is me! But then 1st time in awhile I decide 2 get on fb & this is the very 1st thing in my news feed & this is not the 1st time this has happened! So I'm really starting 2 believe that its no coincidence I stumbled upon ur page! Idk how it happened & I don't care why, I'm just happy that I did! So thank u 4 ur uplifting words! :)

Anonymous said...

Treat like you want to be treated, maybe people think that its something wrong with you.

Anonymous said...

This is unreal, I have seen nothing like this in my life. I really don't get it this sounds like someone young. We all have feelings, but what happened happened I have a idea of how one is feeling except it and move on. No one knew, there is so more that I want to say but I just feel like its anybody's business.............

Anonymous said...

It's no one's business, you may think that I am a cruel person but I'm going to express my feelings as well. I was treated good and you'll probably never get that again, and God said let it be known to the love of my life AH

Anonymous said...

Good-bye whoever you are this is really too silly for me I am not in jr high school. Grow the hell up, keep your memories and I'm going to keep mine. GOOD-BYE I WANT TO KEEP OUR MEMORIES INSIDE OF ME AND ME ONLY, BUT ALSO THERE IS FREEDOM OF SPEECH YOU EVER HEARD OF THAT TAKE CARE YOUNG PERSON

Anonymous said...

Are these criminals on the side some of your friends I guess their part of the trash too

Unknown said...

First half, words of wisdom; second half, words of judgement.

Anonymous said...

Yea people don't think that's awfull when they abuse somebody in every way they can, they don't realize that's its wrong or they don't care .
But mayb they will realized if somebody done it to them...

Anonymous said...

When it is your own flesh and blood that grind you into the dirt by spreading filth and lies about you, and puts it all in facebook, and you can't defend yourself, it makes you feel almost suicidal..
I console myself by cutting them all out of my life, and making a new life for myself, and I am in my seventies.
Thank God for good friends......

Anonymous said...

i just simply need to forgive and let go of all the junk and abuse of my past. i have had horrid abuse my entire lifetime. i am over 40 - tired of even my sadness and anger. the key is forgiveness. letting go of who harmed you. I choose to do that today. I have been angry too long too much - thinking - oh i have a right to be angry and it is a righteous anger. I let go for GOD and for my own well being - etc - it doesn't justify what the abusers did - it is healing. it is the only way out. It is hard - cause a part of you wants to stay angry - but i let it go now - i let go of the anger - i forgive.

Anonymous said...

too bad I don't believe it. I'm so messed up I can't even pull myself out of the depression & isolation I've been in for more than 15 years, despite meds & therapy. I have gotten really good at pretending I'm not when I go to work or I'm around other people. Seems like I can't do anything right. I am so lonely and nobody knows it. I can't even dream of how I would like my life to change. Setting goals? why when I always fail. I see people that look happy and especially those that have a special man in their life and it makes me even sadder. It's gotten to the point that if I don't have to leave my house, I would stay and hide. Can't even say I wallow in my depression, I just don't think about anything. I have been asking God to help me, but it doesn't seem to work. Don't get me wrong, I am grateful to God for all I do have. But this black cloud just won't go away. It's become a permanent resident that I can't escape - like a stalker only I'm not afraid of it anymore.

Anonymous said...

WOW! making me re-think my old resentments.. now, I WANT to get rid of them.. Blessings to all... I hope you can make it our your own hells..not sarcasm.. I am there myself. Now, for some reason I am inspired to let some of my "favorites" (resentments, anger, and hate) GO.. get them out and move on! - I am only 50 its time I movd forward and let the Universe sort out the bullshit.. maybe I am not meant to..

Anonymous said...

you are not alone. there are a lot of lonely confused why me people out there. a sense of dread never happy. the only thing you can do is keep fighting it. everyone is fighting a demon of some kind. no one is truly happy and if they say they are they are lying or ignorant. happiness can come if you let it in. you have to let it in. only you can do this. not meds or a shrink. your own mind can make you see things differently if you let it. I have a ton of drama but so does everyone I know. someone always has something worse than you. sometimes its annoying because you want some sorry affection love pity and all you get is their problems thrown back at you. the best thing you can do is listen quietly to their problems and compare them to yours. sometimes theirs are worse. then yours aren't so bad. no one has NO DRAMA in their life. pinky swear

Anonymous said...

God made man in his own image which means that you, yourself are your own God.
Your mind is the universe that floats around in your head, protected from harm.
It is extremely powerful and terrifying to realise its true potential. Never achieved by any human.
When the body is weak, the mind grows stronger to accomodate.
When the mind is hurt, it heals and gets stronger too. It's called wisdom.
It gets to the point in old age where it is so powerful that it becomes disabling and even the same after traumatic events.
Everything is just an illusion of how we see things with our own eyes... The windows to our souls.
What we choose to see and think as well as hear from different stimuli makes our mood switch instantly from being comfortabe to troubled.
Have a nice life, everybody... You deserve it!

Unknown said...

i feeel n here whatr saying im a single mum neaaly 11 ths im at a stage where i dont go nywhere even feel anxiousshopping my kids are feeling n i trying i just cant get out of this dark cloud

Anonymous said...

THAT IS SO TRUE GOD DID NOT MAKE US TO DESTROY EACH OTHER,HE MADE US TO LEAVE IN A HAPPY LIFE ON THIS EARTH AN TO LOVE ONE OTHER,EVERONE ON THIS EARTH HAS BEEN MADE DIFFERENT WAYBTO LEAVE LIFE,SOME IS STRONG AN SOME IS WEAK SO THERE FOR WE NEED TO HELP THE WANTS THAT IS WEAK TO COME STRONG LIKE YOU,THEIR WINDOW TO YOUR SOUL IS HOW YOU SEE THINGS IN LIFE,WHAT EACH AN EVERYONE CHOOSE IN LIFE TO SEE,THINK ,IN MINE IS DIFFERETSTIMULI MAKES YOUR OWN MOOD THAT SWITCH INSTANTLY FROM TIME TO TIME AN WILL COMFORTABLE TO TROUBLED,LET THE UNIVERSE SORT OUT THE BULLSHIT AN LET GOD HELP EVRYONE ON THIS EARTH ,WE DESERIVE IT.[GOD BLESS US ALL A-MEM,A-MEM.

Anonymous said...

It would be alright if people wouldn't LIE AFTER LIE, CHEAT, DECEIVE, ENTRAP,SLEEP WITH ANOTHER TO ACHEIVE PREGNANCY and lead others into the Illusions they live and it's extremely funny to see them post things from here when they stuff up and contradict themselves all the time every time. You are your own Joke. Truth be told.

Anonymous said...

this is a real sad fact of life that there are people who do all that you are saying, and then turn around and ask God for help and forgiveness when everything goes pear shaped, because they are getting found out or the scheming plans they've made come unraveled. Don't worry about God, worry about Miss Karma, she packs more of a wallop and by the sounds of all things it sounds like she's on her way to visit you!!

Unknown said...

I've found this page to be uplifting, when I'm down. When I'm blue, one to a few of the links to this page appear and lift my spirit's. I thank god for this page cause when I have one of those days, I just come here for some healing. Thank you Dave!!!