Saturday, March 16, 2013

Never Change For Anyone...

Real love can't be faked, you just can't force others
to love you, so just be yourself.

The ones who leave your life because they want
you to be someone other than you, never really loved you.

Never change for anyone because it will never last.
Be true to who you are, be real, be you.

7 comments:

Anonymous said...

I had a man who was wonderful to me and his love was so real he was always there when I needed him he was a kind man, he is no longer here his life was taken away much too soon he had so much gone for him I really do miss him, he would have had a birthday coming at the end of this month March 28th,but I know he is looking down from heaven, this was my love he kept on coming for yrs thats a special thing that no one can take away and they are not our memories will always last

Anonymous said...

This is so true, if that love is not returned don't give up give it a try but if u just don't see things changing then move on. But when the next one comes along and treats u so much differently hold on, my mother always told me to get someone who loves u more than u love them. U know parents always have the advice

Anonymous said...

I don't think that people should play with people's feelings

Anonymous said...

So very true!!!

Anonymous said...

I Agree to that!

Anonymous said...

Exactly what I tell my daughters. If he loves you, your love for him will grow & grow.

Anonymous said...

Well, I have a little more insight to this one. I had a very close friend, we had so much in common, but I had to walk away from our girlfriendship after almost 20 yrs. See she had been in an abusive marriage, by the time I met her for 14 yrs ... and she is STILL with him, believe this, or not! See her Dad abused her Mom while she was growing up (so like Mom, like daughter), but he divorced her Mom when my girlfriend was a teenager and remarried, BUT her Dad traveled for his business and always came back to see her Mom (may still be doing this also, IDK) for a few days ... yes, he was having a long standing 'affair' with his EX-wife while remarried!! So I was not really surprised when my friend told me once she thought she deserved a life of abuse from her husband like her Mom. I went through a lot with her, cried many tears with her, worried about her all the time, even flew her out several times to stay a while with me in another state. But she took a part of my life from me, she broke my heart knowing she would never leave her husband ... they both had affairs all during their marriage also! So I had to let her go, either stand on her own two feet or stay in the same abusive marriage. Hardest thing I ever had to do. I didn't want to change her, I wanted her to change herself. She often told me she wished she had my strength, but she wanted my strength to help her instead of her helping herself. Haven't heard from her in about 10 yrs now, but I heard from other friends they are still together ... how sad.