My sister and I are. not speaking. We had an awful fight following the death of her husband and the death of our mother within a month of each other. She has chosen to drink and I am a nonpracticing alcoholic. No relief in sight. :(
Have you tried calling her. Life is to short. You or her could be gone tomorrow. The Past is History and the Future is Now. So, pick up the phone and call her.. make things right.. and if it was her fault, you tell her what she did wrong and get over it.. Shes your Sister. Your blood. Your Family..
My sister was my sister,mother,best friend!! Don't waste time on things you can't change about her! Love her all you can today, she may not be here tomorrow! It will be two years June 16, 2013' (my birthday!!) that I lost one of the most important people in my life!! I can only remember our phone conversations everyday!!! Love and enjoy your sister while you have the chance!!!!!!!!!
I Love my sister Casey Myers. She has been there for me when I needed her. I don't know wat I would have ever done without her. She is my sister & my best friend.
I LOVE MY SISTERS WE ALL HAVE HAD OUR UPS AND DOWNS BUT I THINK WE ALL HAVE COME TO RELIZE WE ALL MUCH RATHER BE THEIR FOR EACH OTHER THREW THICK AND THIN ALOT OF TIME HAS PASSED BUT WE ARE NOT GONNA LET ANYMORE TIME GO BYE I LOVE EACH AND EVERYONE OF MY SISTERS AND MY SISTER -IN -LAWS I HAVE GREAT ONES I LOVE YOU ALL AND WILL ALWAYS BE HERE FOR ALL OF USE ,,,LOVE KAREN
I went a year without talking to my sister all over lies. We have a cousin who can't handle talking to us together she will start shit to get us sisters to fight. Long story short we cut her out of our life's and promise each other that we will never go that long without talking. Its been a while for this post. I hope that you lady's worked it out. Sisters are best friends for life.
My sister, thinks I am jealous of her & I one day I need to tell her this! I am very Happy with my own life & blessed with what I have! But she thinks her siblings are all jealous of her! How crazy is this? If I try to say something about myself, she won't let me have a word in edgewise! How dare you brag to me! Well hate to tell my sis, her shit isn't any better then mine but she thinks she is!
i have read these posts. i have a wonderful younger sister and i have always loved her and always will. thankfully she is a wonderful person and helps me in my life. try to get to be friends with your sister because as you must not wait till something happens......too late then. just continue with your prayers for her. things work out, not always how you want, but they do work out that you can live with !!!! go for it !
Get back with her, no matter what. If she's drinking, that is her business & you need to let go of it. My sister didn't drink & I did, a small thing compared to our love for each other. She still loved me & I love her. She died at 44. My ONLY sister & I still miss her after all of these years. We all handle things differently & if you don't drink, let her know that. She will probably respect that when with you, but if she doesn't, who cares? God is the judge last I knew, not you, I or anyone else here on earth.
Try to forgive her. Life is short and we never when it could our last day. Me and only sister was just like you and your sister but no drinking or drugs involved. We made up small steps now we are closer than ever. The best of luck to you and your sister.
I have the most wonderful twin sister in the world. I'm so lucky, she not only my sister is also my best friend. We just celebrated our 70th Birthday together I wouldn't have any other way. if you have a sister, always remember she should be your best friend.
I had a brain aneurysm back in May and I just got out of the hospital 3 weeks ago. I feel like I have been given a second chance at life. After reading some of these posts, I am sitting here shaking my head. I have a sister - my best friend. Life is often taken for granted. Back in 2006 we lost one of our brothers - he was only 51. . .same age I am now. His death was a complete shock. After thait we promised we would not be able to stay mad at each other. Then this.
We thave one more brother - he is retired, living on a boat of all things. He and I were not speaking for a few years, but then I found him on Facebook and the rest
Over 17 yrs ago my sister and I got into a fight. She said some really hurtful things. I loved her however was going through some things of my own an ad had thought I would make up w her once my personal issue was over. She died at the age of 29 on my first mother's day weeks before my situation would have been over. With Jesus I have healing but it has still been hard. I understand not wanting to fall from your sobriety and by all means take those precautions but forgive her love her call her. My prayers are w you both.
Agree with Rachel I fell out with my sister in 2006 many words were said and written and attempts to reconcile all mine sadly, have been rebuffed. The whole family extended including cousins my aunts uncles brother mother, cut me out because I changed my name to an African one. It was my way of dealing with grief and domestic violence but they couldnet get past it not being English. Lifes far too short for so much hurt. If you CAN make up I pray you do. No one knows when their end is. Reach out, maybe she won't need drink if you help her back up. Love and light x
Be grateful url have sisters I only had I sister she passed away 29yrs ogo. Ill give anything to have her back I really do miss her so luv your sister cherrish her wen they gone u will miss her
Sharing the same sentiments with you guys....my youngest sister passed away 8 years ago and up to this day I still miss her...she would have been 39 years old yesterday, August 30.....God bless everyone!!!
I always end up forgiving my sister who is also enjoys her drug of choice alcohol. She has the greatest heart but when she is drinking says the most hurtful things to and about me. I figure she needs me more now than ever so Words hurt but not as bad as silence. I watch my husband reeled with anger toward his sisters ((none of them speak to the other) it is sad. Forgiveness is easier than permission.
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My sister and I are. not speaking. We had an awful fight following the death of her husband and the death of our mother within a month of each other. She has chosen to drink and I am a nonpracticing alcoholic. No relief in sight.
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My sister is the Best friend ....Thnxxx a Lotttt God ....Har Har MahaDev...Om Namh shivaye .
I have three of the best sisters in the world... Pam, Shon and Chelle. Love them to death.
Have you tried calling her. Life is to short. You or her could be gone tomorrow. The Past is History and the Future is Now. So, pick up the phone and call her.. make things right.. and if it was her fault, you tell her what she did wrong and get over it.. Shes your Sister. Your blood. Your Family..
My sister and I don't always see eye to eye but she's the only sister I have and that's what make her important to me. Love you Tami
My sister was my sister,mother,best friend!! Don't waste time on things you can't change about her! Love her all you can today, she may not be here tomorrow! It will be two years June 16, 2013' (my birthday!!) that I lost one of the most important people in my life!! I can only remember our phone conversations everyday!!! Love and enjoy your sister while you have the chance!!!!!!!!!
I Love my sister Casey Myers. She has been there for me when I needed her. I don't know wat I would have ever done without her. She is my sister & my best friend.
Love all my sisters.... Debbie,patty, Barbie, thressia, and Brenda.....
I LOVE MY SISTERS WE ALL HAVE HAD OUR UPS AND DOWNS BUT I THINK WE ALL HAVE COME TO RELIZE WE ALL MUCH RATHER BE THEIR FOR EACH OTHER THREW THICK AND THIN ALOT OF TIME HAS PASSED BUT WE ARE NOT GONNA LET ANYMORE TIME GO BYE I LOVE EACH AND EVERYONE OF MY SISTERS AND MY SISTER -IN -LAWS I HAVE GREAT ONES I LOVE YOU ALL AND WILL ALWAYS BE HERE FOR ALL OF USE ,,,LOVE KAREN
I went a year without talking to my sister all over lies. We have a cousin who can't handle talking to us together she will start shit to get us sisters to fight. Long story short we cut her out of our life's and promise each other that we will never go that long without talking. Its been a while for this post. I hope that you lady's worked it out. Sisters are best friends for life.
My sister, thinks I am jealous of her & I one day I need to tell her this! I am very Happy with my own life & blessed with what I have! But she thinks her siblings are all jealous of her! How crazy is this? If I try to say something about myself, she won't let me have a word in edgewise! How dare you brag to me! Well hate to tell my sis, her shit isn't any better then mine but she thinks she is!
i have read these posts. i have a wonderful younger sister and i have always loved her and always will. thankfully she is a wonderful person and helps me in my life. try to get to be friends with your sister because as you must not wait till something happens......too late then. just continue with your prayers for her. things work out, not always how you want, but they do work out that you can live with !!!! go for it !
Get back with her, no matter what. If she's drinking, that is her business & you need to let go of it. My sister didn't drink & I did, a small thing compared to our love for each other. She still loved me & I love her. She died at 44. My ONLY sister & I still miss her after all of these years. We all handle things differently & if you don't drink, let her know that. She will probably respect that when with you, but if she doesn't, who cares? God is the judge last I knew, not you, I or anyone else here on earth.
I miss my sister....she passed away 9 months ago...I would give anything to hear her voice.
If you have a sister you are very blessed
Try to forgive her. Life is short and we never when it could our last day. Me and only sister was just like you and your sister but no drinking or drugs involved. We made up small steps now we are closer than ever. The best of luck to you and your sister.
I have the most wonderful twin sister in the world. I'm so lucky, she not only my sister is also my best friend. We just celebrated our 70th Birthday together I wouldn't have any other way.
if you have a sister, always remember she should be your best friend.
I had a brain aneurysm back in May and I just got out of the hospital 3 weeks ago. I feel like I have been given a second chance at life. After reading some of these posts, I am sitting here shaking my head. I have a sister - my best friend. Life is often taken for granted. Back in 2006 we lost one of our brothers - he was only 51. . .same age I am now. His death was a complete shock. After thait we promised we would not be able to stay mad at each other. Then this.
We thave one more brother - he is retired, living on a boat of all things. He and I were not speaking for a few years, but then I found him on Facebook and the rest
Is history!
Over 17 yrs ago my sister and I got into a fight. She said some really hurtful things. I loved her however was going through some things of my own an ad had thought I would make up w her once my personal issue was over. She died at the age of 29 on my first mother's day weeks before my situation would have been over. With Jesus I have healing but it has still been hard. I understand not wanting to fall from your sobriety and by all means take those precautions but forgive her love her call her. My prayers are w you both.
Agree with Rachel I fell out with my sister in 2006 many words were said and written and attempts to reconcile all mine sadly, have been rebuffed. The whole family extended including cousins my aunts uncles brother mother, cut me out because I changed my name to an African one. It was my way of dealing with grief and domestic violence but they couldnet get past it not being English. Lifes far too short for so much hurt. If you CAN make up I pray you do. No one knows when their end is. Reach out, maybe she won't need drink if you help her back up.
Love and light x
Be grateful url have sisters I only had I sister she passed away 29yrs ogo. Ill give anything to have her back I really do miss her so luv your sister cherrish her wen they gone u will miss her
Sharing the same sentiments with you guys....my youngest sister passed away 8 years ago and up to this day I still miss her...she would have been 39 years old yesterday, August 30.....God bless everyone!!!
I always end up forgiving my sister who is also enjoys her drug of choice alcohol. She has the greatest heart but when she is drinking says the most hurtful things to and about me. I figure she needs me more now than ever so Words hurt but not as bad as silence. I watch my husband reeled with anger toward his sisters ((none of them speak to the other) it is sad. Forgiveness is easier than permission.
Go ahead make that gesture it will not hurt.
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