Wednesday, June 19, 2013

Everyone Has Been Through Something

Everyone has been through something that has changed them
in a way that they could never go back to the person
they once were.

10 comments:

Anonymous said...

No one is immune to life changing events. The difference is how they handle them, rather than being controlled by them.

Anonymous said...

How about when someone else tries to control your life?? They play games and hide behind a mask so they can not be touched!!! They also expect everyone to keep playing in some SICK minnd game!!! Someone needs to get a real life to live and stop worring about everyone else!!

Anonymous said...

First i would like 2 say amen how can people even know what everyone been thourgh no walk in my shoes but everyone tryed 2 judge me stop trying 2 live my life get ur house in order first!!!!!

Anonymous said...

Everyone in this whole world has problems. I hate wen people forget about there own problems and find it so amusing of what other peoples problems are.its none of there buisness what happens in other peoples lifes. They should be concerned about there own instead of pretending there perfect and have no problems. Its not fair either making a laugh of peoples problems because god judges everyone.

Anonymous said...

Oh I know what you mean. Iwas controlled for a long time and didn't even realise it. It was all mind games pretending there soft and innocent and that there doin nothing wrong. Then everyone else seems to just agree with this person. It drives you crazy that you know your getting controlled and yet can't prove it to yourself. I used to think I was going to go to a mental home because I couldn't see reality. Thank blessed god I finally came out of the spell they had me under and left. I realise now they all controlled me because they were jelous of how I would live life and my happiness. There own lives were pure miserable and they were dragging me down with them. Since I left I am happier now than I have been in a long time and I look and see how miserable them people all are and don't appreciate good things in there life. I don't know how people can be so cruel to play mind games that they love you when they only want to mess up your life.

Anonymous said...

God has taught me that people who has nothing better to do, look at others through a magnifying glass, judging and critizing. Why? Because they can't see their own flaws, errors and mistakes. They want others to change, as long as they don't have to. This is what alot of shovanistic-pigs, arrogant, self-centered men do. They over possess women, telling them to change, so they don't. God gave us all the greatest gift, the will to choose. Unfortunately, many don't respect that. What one sows, shall reap some day.

Anonymous said...

Your comment actually made me feel a lot more positive in myself. I left my husband because he was never there for me or his children and had all the respect- for his own family. Everytime he would tell me to change or let him be the boss I would know what he was doing so we would argue over it. He did manage to control me by being so nice and doing everyting for me but would have comments such as ' even if you have no friends I'm always there for you' or even I do love you, I mightnt show it but I do. Still he would never ever show his feelings. But by doing this with sweet words he was able to control me so before I know it he was my boss and I couldn't understand how I couldn't realise. His family controlled me in the exact same way and still I didn't notice it until years later. They left me in a way I didn't want to go anywhere or talk to people. I thought I was depressed so I kept praying for gods help because I couldn't understand what was wrong. That's when I finally seen what they were all doing to me so I left. Still all I can say for them what comes around goes around. God will deal with them for the punishment they put me and my children through. May god give us strength to carry on in our lives stronger. Amen

Anonymous said...

Agree wholeheartedly....

b91b77b4-dc2f-11e2-bc33-000f20980440 said...

You need to get away from that person. After the death of my husband 13 years ago. I met someone that was lets say worked with my husband so I guess you could say we kind of knew one anothr. But still he ended up taking advantage of me and was very controling .But at the same time helped me out. Hard to explain. But he was in a long time relationship and mainly wasn't faithful to this women. But would never leave her due to what she had done all for him. Which that I never found out. But I eventually moved away and have learned a big leason that I will always remember the rest of my life.
Well hope everyone has a nice day. I can be reached in FaceBook or Marienhyy@netzero.com if anyone ever needs a listening ear. or just someone to talk too.

Anonymous said...

amen