Thursday, September 25, 2014

The Pain Of Losing A Child


When a parent loses a child, it is a long and emotional process. It starts on the day the child passes and only ends when the parent joins them.

26 comments:

Anonymous said...

LOVE YOUR SITE, i TOO HAVE LOST A DAUGHTER, SHE JUST TURNED 20 TWO WEEKS AFTER HER BIRTHDAY, TO SUICIDE. NOT A DAY GOES BY THAT I DONT THINK OF HER. REST IN PEACE MY BABY GIRL

Anonymous said...

I also love your site and I lost my son at 45 to suicide. Not a day goes by that I don't cry and pray that he finally has peace. I know that we will be together again. Love you

Lisa Marie Hulligan said...

This is the first tym ive seen this site, thankyou its heartwarming. An bless ya I'm not a religious woman but I no my ikkle girl is happy xx so fank you for helping it may not seem much but I mean it sincerely xxxxx

Anonymous said...

I too have lost a child. My son only lived 5 days. Not a day goes by that i don't miss him ! I know we'll be united again when the creator calls me home.

Anonymous said...

I to lost my child...Matthew was 17 when he passed and not a day goes by that I don't think of him or miss him and always wonder......what if?

Pandora De La Cruz said...

My youngest son, age 11, went to fly with the angels January 23, 2013 (unofficial date was January 21, 2013 when he seized and his father and I were at his side). He had Williams Syndrome, was diagnosed with Williams Syndrome when he was 14 months old, chronic kidney failure was diagnosed at 23 months old....dialysis started November 2, 2013 and he had his kidney transplant November 19, 2013. He was doing AMAZING!!! But on the morning of January 21, 2013, he awoke with an upset tummy and he quickly went downhill. Rapid dehydration, rapid kidney failure, and brain swelling so severe that his brain was coming down his spinal column. All I can believe is that God not only wanted to my son, but he NEEDED him. My son has always been the happiest, sweetest, and truly the most loving human being I have ever known. I am blessed beyond words to be his mother. My angel on Earth is now my angel in Heaven....forever and always mommy's lil man. There isn't a day that goes by that I don't miss my son...his brothers, ages 13 and 14, are changed forever by his passing...but we are so thankful to have had the most wonderful 11 years with our angel. Until we see each other again....I LOVE YOU MY DANNO!!!!

Anonymous said...

Missy son Nathan daily. Long road ahead its only been 4onths but feels like a lifetime.

Anonymous said...

My son passed away 11/19/12, he was 28, there isn't a day that does by that I don't miss him and my tears come daily. The loss of a child, however old they are (were), is never easy for parents, they were our babies and we will never forget them or ever stop missing them. They are forever in our hearts and will be forever loved.

Donna Haddock said...

My 23 year old daughter passed away December 5, 2012. My only child, forever gone.

kelly walsh said...

My son passed away on the 18/7/2001 he was 22 months old there isn't a day goes buy when I don't think ov him I miss him so much somtimes I sit here on my own and just talk to his pictures n have a good cry coz I know he can here me n that makes me feel better.

Denise Bryant said...

My beautiful 33 year old daughter passed away from MRSA March 17, 2008. Not a day goes by that I miss my baby with every fiber of my being. The pain never goes away, I've just learned to live with it.

Susan Meyer said...

Thank you for your site. My daughter was murdered last month, shot numerous times by her boyfriend. He then murdered 3 others innocent people who happened to be in the wrong place at the wrong time. Justine was 24. Not a minute goes by that I don't think of her, not a day goes by that I don't break down in tears. She didn't deserve to die. I know she will be celebrating her upcoming birthday in Heaven. I look forward to the day when I can take her in my arms again and tell her how much I love her and how proud I am of her.

Anonymous said...

If he pass on jan 2013 how did he have a operation nov 2013 when we only in may but rip sorry if sound rude just thought I let u no

Anonymous said...

Aww that really sad rip angle

Anonymous said...

I also lost one on feb 28, 2013 to suicide, no words to describe the pain.

Anonymous said...

We lost our son January 5.2012 on January 20th he would of been 40 He was in a wheelchair from a car wreck in '94, His dad and I kept care of him everyday when he was not in a hospital. We will never be the same, Miss you Sean so much Dad and mom.
Thank you for this beautiful web site

Anonymous said...

my beautiful daughter kerry-anne died on the 13th apri 1999 due to menigitusaged 13 it wi be her 28th birthday on the 20th may 2013 there is not a day goes by without her famiy missing her your words of wisdom has truly touch our hearts thank you dave xx

Anonymous said...

To Susan Meyer, You and I share almost the same sorrow. It was my 30yr old Son Kevin, and three others was murdered. 1 of the women was 8 mos pregnant, which is who my Son was trying to save when that murderer also filled him fill of bullets. He shot them all repeatedly, even the unborn infeat had bullets in him. State Att. said he to was just at wrong place wrong time. How can someone be so inhuman. 4 PEOPLE. Kevin had 3 sm. children who now only visit their Dads grave site. Wish I could tell you it gets easier. Somedays I still long to be dead with him, but I know I must go on without him, theres no other choice. I will mourn for him till my last breath I take. Cathy Ratliff

Anonymous said...

same,get your dates right, or are you fake and just ongood drugs?

Betsy Jones Cram said...

My son died tragically three years ago at the age of 29. It is definitely a journey. Just this past week I created a blog in which I am sharing my experiences in the hope that it will give encouragement to others who experiencing such terrible loss. I would love to have any and all of you join me on my journey "Grieving the Loss, Sunshine After the Storm." www.grievingthelosssunshineafterthestorm.blogspot.com

Blessings to all............ Betsy

Anonymous said...

We lost our Son,he was 20 and he took his life. It's been 4yrs June 12 and we just keep going because his friends are there for us.I thank God for him and the BEST group of friend a child could ever have.We don't use the S word,We feel better saying He took his Life and ours!!!!

Anonymous said...

Our daughter died on May 12, 1985(Mother's Day). Barbara Ann was 15 and 1/2 years old and died from bone cancer. It has now been over 28 years and yet there our times when it seems like just yesterdy. We thank God every night for letting us have His child with us here on earth. She was a wonderful daughter and big sister. Until we meet again - we love you and miss you Barb. xoxoxo

Anonymous said...

My son took his life on Dec.15th 2005. He was 21.
The pain of losing a child never goes away,
I miss my boy so much. Bit I know I will one day see him again....

Anonymous said...

I lost my daughter Alicia at the age of four months almost 30 years ago, and it still feels like yesterday. You never get over watching them put your baby in the ground and throwing dirt on top of her. The hardest part was having to leave her there all alone. I'll never ever get over it, and any parent that has lost a child will say the same thing. She passed away from a congenital heart defect and had two open heart surgeries before she passed away. It's a pain no parent should ever have to experience.

Anonymous said...

I'm 26 years now and I have already lost two kids they where twins and the died when I was giving birth to them,that is the day I wish I could forget in my life but I don't know how•i have other kid but what I know is that every child is imporant in his or her way I wish my boys could have lived but I can't forget their tiny faces littlle hands and feet and I hope that one day their memory from my face will fade becouse I'm still hurting and even if I didn't hold them with my hand they lived inside me for eight months•thier birth almost took my life And evry time I see twins my mind takes me to that day

Anonymous said...

My God bless their souls