Thursday, May 16, 2013

Never Use Your Children...

A parent of high moral standing will never use their child
as a weapon to hurt the other should the relationship break down,
because they understand that it is only the child that suffers
and the happiness of the child is what really matters!

6 comments:

Tee Cuevas said...

I am going to take a leap of faith here and say I believe this to be true even in death.

Anonymous said...

This is very true. The childrens happiness is what counts the most. But I will say there is some parents that don't use their kids as weapons. Some have no choice to keep their kids away from the other parent if they are violent or the kids are at risk of harm so them parents can't be judged. They are only thinking of the childrens safety and not using them as weapons. Then there are some parents that will just use the kids to get revenge at an ex partner. This isn't right especailly for the parent that doesn't see the children because there hearts would be breaking as much as the kids. Things needs to be thought clearly before you mess with the childrens feelings. As in the examples think of what's best for the children. There happiness is what counts :)

Anonymous said...

Same applies to a grandparent.... we wait all our lives for grandchildren only to be manipulated and alienated from their lives at will...very painful for us and the grandchild who we love uncondirionally:-(

Anonymous said...

it is cruelty

Anonymous said...

NO CHILD SHOULD BE USED TO MANIPULATE OR CONTROL ANYONE!!! ESPECIALLY THE OTHER PARENT OR A GRANDPARENT. THIS IS HAPPENING TO MY GRANDCHILD. HER FATHER IS TRYING TO ALIENATE HER FROM US. ALL OUT OF SPITE :( WAIT UNTIL SHE IS OLDER AND WISER TO WHAT IS GOING ON!!! SHE WILL REBEL AND MAKE HIS AND HIS WIFE'S LIFE A LIVING HELL. SHE HAS A CLOSE BOND WITH THIS SIDE OF HER FAMILY, AND AS MUCH AS YOU TRY AND DESTROY IT, THE MORE KARMA WILL SLAP YOU IN THE FACE. OUR LOVE IS UNCONDITIONAL, YOURS IS FULL OF SPITE, HATRED AND LIES. WHO PUNISHES THE CHILD WHO SPEAKS THE TRUTH? WHO COACHES THE CHILD TO LIE? WHO LIES ABOUT THE OTHER PARENT OR GRANDPARENT JUST TO MAKE THEMSELVES LOOK GOOD? ENOUGH IS ENOUGH! SEND HER HOME!

Anonymous said...

my daughter does this to me, today is my grandchilds birthday, when my daughter left them in mexico i am the one that went to get them out. when she went to prison i took care of them, it has been 4 years sense i have seen them, now i hate my daughter and what kind of a mother does that make me. i have tried to forgive her because i have lost so much over her illegal activites but she is just bad poison to me and the grandchildren. but the really sad part is i could care less if my daughter lives or dies.