Monday, January 7, 2013

The Pain Of Losing A Loved One

There is no way you can fully express
the pain of losing  a loved one.
there is no way you can make others understand
the pain you have endured.

All you can do is deal with things the best you can and hope that
those who are close to you, your friends and family,
will care enough to support you through the toughest time
in your life, for it is during these dark times in your life
that the ones who truly care for you will step up to the mark.

26 comments:

Unknown said...

so sad that the one you loved is no more and those who are supposed to fill and or share the pain are constituting nuisance, very very painful.

Anonymous said...

This is the toughest time in my life.

Anonymous said...

I cannot believe today is 5 months since you took your last breath. I miss you more than you can realize. I will always carry our love within body and soul. You will be with me forever :'(

Anonymous said...

I miss you baby

Anonymous said...

I cannot get over the fact my grandson passed away I misses him so much it broke our hearts too see you go , but I know you are at peace and rest so God is taking care of you . You will always be remembered we Love you man. I will always remember you.

Anonymous said...

It will be 8 long years in July and still the pain is great. Not a day goes by that I dont remember what we had!!! Nobody really understands unless they have walked the long lonely path!!!!!!

Anonymous said...

I love you son!! I know you're looking down on me- I can feel your love and your arms around me!!

Anonymous said...

I agree, and share your pain. In two weeks, it will be 10 years for me without my darling husband. Be thankful for good memories - they will help you through.

Anonymous said...

It has been 14 years since my Daddy went to Heaven and soon to be 10 years for Mother. Each day, they are one my mind . I sometimes find myself asking God for peace and protection. My life has never been the same. Daddy was my Hero.

Anonymous said...

It's been almost 5 yrs. since my 1st. born son died, at the age of 31. May 31, 2008. It will be 5 yrs. and It feels likeyesterday, my baby left this life to go to his new life. my mom passed in 2011. All i could say was - OMG !!! no way. My 2 best friends.... R. I. P. Son & Mom.. Death will change ur life 4 ever.... GOD BLESS ALL THATS GONE ON. AND THEIR FAMILIES. LET'S KEEP EACH OTHER IN PRAYER.

Anonymous said...

Yes, they have 2 walk our walk. AMEN ! I lost my son in 2008 & my mom in 2011. Life will never be the same without them...

Anonymous said...

1 year ago on April 19th, I lost the love of my life, my best friend and soul mate. Its been a very hard year. Never thought I would make it through the first day. He still is my special angel and always will be. I love you Big D. Always and forever.

Anonymous said...

:( 5yrs my Son and Mum xxxxxxxxxxxxxx always and forever , im looking for the rainbow♥

Anonymous said...

To Anonymous,
you are so correct on the fact that death of a loved one changes your life 4 ever. I lost my baby sis(Barbara) at age 52 due to a cancerous brain tumor(astrocytoma) on Nov. 20th, 2010. And I feel the greif still . I'm trying to shake it so that I can move on, but I don't feel that it's time yet . I've let my health deteriorate due to the greiving, and would like to start taking better care of myself for my mom, and my 15-year old son, and my 22-year old nephew in the Navy, and of course, for myself and God. But it's tough to step forward with this.

Anonymous said...

It's been almost 7 years since I lost my friend and his birthday was on the 23rd he would have been 26 It is scary to think about the fact that I have lived longer than he did and I am 5 years younger than him. That I have seen more of this life than he did. The poem is right tho that those who are still here will help us when times get tough. I know that he is my guardian angel know that hes gone and i could not ask for a better one. Time may heal the wound but it does not go away and I know that I was not expecting it to hit me as hard as it did. However my friend was able to help me through it and I am so grateful to him. I still miss him and know he will never be replaced but that's ok because I don't want anyone to ever replace him.

joan richardson said...

19 months since i lost my daughter an it sill hurts as much as the first day tears still flowin an my heart s still broke i miss u so much my baby

Anonymous said...

It has been 6 months since i lost my husband of 40 yrs and i miss him more and more each and every day

Unknown said...

It has been nine months since I lost the one man who thought the world of me. I have not found it easy to keep going on. Gary and I had 12 years together and the pain has not lessen one bit. I have people telling me I will find someone else, but that is not going to happen. There is no one who can take his place or even fill a small part of my heart.

Anonymous said...

my daughter was 19 when i lost her then my husband a year after her that, it's been 18yrs without kimburly and 17 without jim i think of them every day all i can say to you all in your pain and journey without your loved ones is we some how learn to hold the pain back from crushing in on us we begin minute to minute, then hour by hour till we can think of them love and miss them in a genteler way

Unknown said...

Tomorrow will be 3 weeks since I lost my mom. I see everyone posting of the years its been for them and still hurts. I pray for comfort and healing of my heart cause it sure feels like a giant empty hole. I wonder and pray I make it through this with my sanity. I know mom would want me and my brothers to go on with life, but it seems almost impossible without her here.

Anonymous said...

I agree & I Feel the big loss too of my husband, Soul mate,Love,Friend, Guide, about 1 year ago May 8th. It is still hard to go on, I try to take it one day at a time & I feel a bit joyful to know that I am one day closer to meeting The LORD & meeting him again. I feel & see him in the brightest star, Guiding me still !!!

Anonymous said...

It's been 8 very long lost yrs since my moms passing. I still hurt as much today as I dd when you were laid to rest. you were my very best friend and my mother. I want to send you a hug n kisses up above to share with dad and lil sis miss you so bad it hurts. .... love your daughter and sis...
R I. p....Maggie

Anonymous said...

I just lost the love of my life Nov 28th 2012 I miss him every day.

Anonymous said...

I lost my love and best friend K.D. Feb 25,2013 it has been 3 long months but feels like yesterday. I was just thinking about Grandpa the other day and on July 25th it will be 8 yrs since he passed. Then I noticed that my friend and my Grandpa both passed on the same date the 25th. I hope they got together up there I asked my grandpa to take care of him and show him the ropes. I love you and miss you both.

Anonymous said...

My beloved husband, best friend, soul mate and so much more went home to Heaven July 11 2012. I have had people tell me I need to get on with my life, well I am trying but all we had for 35 yrs. was each other, no children and family scattered. Please don't tell me you know how I feel because you don't even if you have list a loved one you don't know how I feel. Everyone is different. Just be there for me if you can and let me cry as long as I need to. I will always miss you Boog . No one will ever take your place and I will see you again someday. I LOVE YOU.

Anonymous said...

This will be my first fathers day without my dad he died last Oct it still feels like yesterday that he went away i miss him so much .Love you Dad