tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8847623571218447022.post8750398565601824860..comments2024-03-19T08:59:58.898+00:00Comments on Daveswordsofwisdom.com: The physical signs of intense sadness - PLEASE READ.Dave Hedgeshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07768336193428300898noreply@blogger.comBlogger94125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8847623571218447022.post-49757158929419651562020-10-08T06:55:23.819+01:002020-10-08T06:55:23.819+01:00After studying a few of the weblog posts on your w...After studying a few of the weblog posts on your web site now, and I really like your way of blogging. I bookmarked it to my bookmark web site checklist and shall be checking again soon. Pls try my web page as properly and let me know what you think. <a href="https://marketplace.visualstudio.com/publishers/AmongUs" rel="nofollow">play among us</a>Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8847623571218447022.post-56302242021806734822020-09-21T04:10:13.709+01:002020-09-21T04:10:13.709+01:00Me to a tee. I don't know if I'll ever ge...Me to a tee. I don't know if I'll ever get back.<br />Normahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09505452557011622528noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8847623571218447022.post-27063888282172747922020-06-05T14:57:26.360+01:002020-06-05T14:57:26.360+01:00Where I live, I've BEGGED for help but can'...Where I live, I've BEGGED for help but can't get any. I have been diagnosed by 5 different psychiatrists in 3 states that I am bi-poar with a heavy dose of panic-anxiety disorder that I would havev to be on medication all my life. Now, I can't find any help at all. What am I supposed to do? Just lie here and die? Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8847623571218447022.post-19802495000661510182020-03-09T12:40:42.009+00:002020-03-09T12:40:42.009+00:00I am just so extremely sad. I just lost my son in ...I am just so extremely sad. I just lost my son in January unexpectedly. Something died in me. I cry a river of tears daily still. I feel this will never go away. I loved him so dearly. He was battling many demons and health issues. I tried my best to help him but he just would not do the right thing consistently. He has two children who are just lost. I feel so bad for them. They live with me and my husband. We are retired but my husband has to work. We had to support them for years up until his death.He can not enjoy retirement because of our debt. It is going to be. ok, I hope. We live in an older home that is just going to hell. So much work needed but no funds. It has been a battle for so long. I cannot believe to this day that my son is gone forever. He was 40 on January 12th. He passed on his daughter's 14th birthday Jan.25th. We are still waiting on autopsy reports. He was in a recovery facility due to come home on the 27th of January. All of this is just unbelievably sad for all of us. You never think your child will pass before you do. Thank you for allowing me to vent. It surely helps.Debrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06838291653144192719noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8847623571218447022.post-45963309537401471992020-02-23T14:37:47.201+00:002020-02-23T14:37:47.201+00:00I am always sad I have got myself. On a trapped m...I am always sad I have got myself. On a trapped marriageAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8847623571218447022.post-91834046598931051932019-11-20T21:11:35.421+00:002019-11-20T21:11:35.421+00:00You wrote this over a year ago... amazing how long...<br />You wrote this over a year ago... amazing how long it takes for people to see things we've written ! I'm very sorry to hear of your terrible experience with the female doctor you saw and also that your son was not treated correctly either and passed. I agree with your mssg., that we must be careful of whom we trust with our mental health as we would with our physical health. And I too have /never will go to a psychiatrist. Had my own bad experiences! It left me with a worse memory and did not help with the depression. I do hope this mssg finds you doing well and thankyou again for posting this.Nikkihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01176266670470600667noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8847623571218447022.post-87027000680571188752019-11-20T19:49:26.421+00:002019-11-20T19:49:26.421+00:00This comment has been removed by the author.Nikkihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01176266670470600667noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8847623571218447022.post-85321365484323448222019-07-15T03:22:43.601+01:002019-07-15T03:22:43.601+01:00Love heals all, Love, love yourself, find the love...Love heals all, Love, love yourself, find the love of God, join a church, rescue a hopeless animal. For me, I am sane because of my dogs. They love me unconditionally. Also, I read the bible and grow close to God and his love. I am sending all of you a good tight hug. I love you, even though I do not know you. I understand what it feels like to be at the bottom. I know what it feels like to be betrayed. Sometimes people have chemical imbalances and nothing will resolve those until you are able to figure it out. Make sure you get your thyroid checked and all your hormones. If possible, exercise. Really push yourself physically. I am saying all the things that have worked for me. I also never admit to feeling down. I tell myself I am strong and by God, I will not feel self pity. Get up everyday and look in the mirror and tell yourself you have value and are worthy of self respect. The best way to get out of depression is to get busy, give of yourself to those who need you. There are people out there, just like you that just need someone to reach out to them and help them get up one more time. It is not how many times you fall down, only that you get back up. You get stronger and stronger. I think you are all very sensitive and caring people. You are the kind of people the world is the cruelest to. Remember there are people out there that need you, they need your help. Because only you can understand. They need you to teach them to be strong. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8847623571218447022.post-46963867179037570072019-06-12T14:06:18.042+01:002019-06-12T14:06:18.042+01:00All pictures in the article show females, most res...All pictures in the article show females, most responses are from..... females. Is sadness and depression just a female thing?? No, of course not. I wonder what the author "Dave" (male!) was thinking when he wrote those words. Tayo Vinkynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8847623571218447022.post-55860957582186236792019-05-21T13:17:33.729+01:002019-05-21T13:17:33.729+01:00I'm a 49year old woman,no kids and feel like t...I'm a 49year old woman,no kids and feel like the above all the time. I've tried so many things but nothing has changed.CarrieGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07375024780843540598noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8847623571218447022.post-82370118429843383862019-01-06T07:31:51.530+00:002019-01-06T07:31:51.530+00:00My back������love of my life is gone. It hurts eve...My back������love of my life is gone. It hurts everyday Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8847623571218447022.post-76267506640584441242018-12-03T03:27:34.889+00:002018-12-03T03:27:34.889+00:00This is me for the last year. Lately I been having...This is me for the last year. Lately I been having thoughts of suicide. I stay in my pretty much most of the time. I hate going to any social gatherings and most sadly it's with family. I keep thinking of should haves and would haves. Self confidence is nearly non-existence. Feel like a total failure. How do I get myself out of this funk?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8847623571218447022.post-49469518969674931642018-11-05T07:18:44.703+00:002018-11-05T07:18:44.703+00:00Many of the symtoms mentioned may be a result of P...Many of the symtoms mentioned may be a result of PTSD. Treatment can help.....meds can stabilize, talking to someone...and prayer.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8847623571218447022.post-23759701992423310802018-11-05T07:05:30.490+00:002018-11-05T07:05:30.490+00:00Many of these symptoms can also be a result of PTS...Many of these symptoms can also be a result of PTSD. Treatment can help one to stabilize....and prayer.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8847623571218447022.post-56113280271997058832018-10-29T10:23:47.944+00:002018-10-29T10:23:47.944+00:00To Jayne Taylor
I went to a woman from the Philipp...To Jayne Taylor<br />I went to a woman from the Philippines who claimed to be a psychiatrist. Oh the degrees we're on the wall but she was evil & had me on 5 meds that destroyed my balance. Her office is a fraud & is located in Fair Oaks, CA. Her male counterpart from the Philippines also was treating my mentally I'll son. All that S.O.B. did was feed the narcissistic monster in my son. He put me through elder abuse for years. My son died 7/29/17 of cancer. I stopped seeing her 4/14 when she trapped me in her office. I do not take any of those meds any more & I have to use a walker. Be careful because ALL of those meds can ruin your balance or something else in the drug. I will NEVER go to another psychiatrist ever again.Janhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09222848932155349026noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8847623571218447022.post-7971729181041727042018-10-29T03:26:58.180+00:002018-10-29T03:26:58.180+00:00I had a very difficult childhood and was barely fu...I had a very difficult childhood and was barely functioning as an adult so I went into therapy. I took meds for awhile too. It made all the difference in my life. I encourage others to do the same. I wouldn't be alive today without it. It takes a bit of looking to find a good therapist but don't give up. I'd also like to suggest a good book to help "Learned Optimism" by Seligman. It can help change the way you see things and think. As I've aged, I needed to have some medicinal help so I went on antidepressants. They made a huge difference for me. I would like to suggest not to be afraid of medications because they can be so helpful. I've seen them help many people. Maybe they'll just be a temporary fix for you until you find a different solution. If sharing my experiences helps anyone, then it's been worth the effort. God bless. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8847623571218447022.post-24623505412092307452018-10-29T02:45:55.109+00:002018-10-29T02:45:55.109+00:00I never knew there was such a deep,every cell, lev...I never knew there was such a deep,every cell, level of burning pain as what I experienced when my son died 36 hours after a fall at our house. I was not so much afraid that I couldn't survive this; but rather afraid that I WOULD survive, and have to awaken each day to the heartache of his death. Prayer sustained me with an amount of strength to go through the days even though I cried till I ran out of tears for the day, and my body ached with pain. For my husband and I, a grief support group was a great outlet for our feelings of grief. Writing a journal was another emotional outlet. Sometimes I wrote to God; sometimes I wrote to my son. Other times I just wrote as a mother with a broken heart. Joining a fitness center was helpful. We went during quiet hours. We didn't feel like going, but often times I would just float in the pool as tears streamed from my eyes and others never noticed my pain. After 2 years of weekly grief support meetings, I felt as though I could help others, so I became one of the facilitators at the grief group. In the beginning days of this journey, seeing the pain in my two other son's faces was almost as unbearable as my own pain. So in closing, I would say that the mental, emotional & physical pain of sorrow for any reason must be dealt with on many fronts. Prayer, councilling, listening friends, exercise, journalling and whatever you can concieve to try.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8847623571218447022.post-50009738990854257002018-10-23T22:02:52.945+01:002018-10-23T22:02:52.945+01:00This is a great article. also a lot of good commen...This is a great article. also a lot of good comments. Yes it really does speak to sadness. I have lived through so much of this. I truly believe the only ONE thing that can help you completely overcome sadness is knowing your creator personally. It takes time but once you realize this and start to get to know Him He can help overcome all of your heartbreaks.<br /><br />https://godsownamycolleen.blogspot.com/ Anonymoushttps://godsownamycolleen.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8847623571218447022.post-88694720957392132942018-10-23T08:24:33.956+01:002018-10-23T08:24:33.956+01:00Talk to someone, most I know have their own lives,...Talk to someone, most I know have their own lives, problems and so on, yes their friends, there's family too,,, but after years of being there for them, their ears are deaf, so what to do,,, lock it down put a smile in your face and cry into the darkness. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8847623571218447022.post-2932178234562786142018-10-15T14:01:23.431+01:002018-10-15T14:01:23.431+01:00Hello, you are fortunate to have a family unit for...Hello, you are fortunate to have a family unit for support, encouragement, and something to look forward to. I have not had this for decades, TREASURE IT! I always thought that mine was due to circumstances. I've been through every route as far as help is concerned and as you say comes in waves. The one thing tgat helps me is a supplement called Gaba 750 mg. Try it, can be found any health food establishment. Hope this helps.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01115239139411870170noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8847623571218447022.post-12889313070681808622018-10-14T15:07:29.833+01:002018-10-14T15:07:29.833+01:00I have carried sadness with me all my life since b...I have carried sadness with me all my life since being abused as a child and feeling let down by the people I trusted the most in the world. <br />I am now 46 and still live with sadness everyday.I refuse to take medication and have gone through the councilling route too. I have been progressive but nothing works.<br />I am in a loving relationship with a wonderful man. I have a beautiful daughter who continually brings me joy and pride.<br />I still carry my sadness with me,I own it,I contain it and I keep moving forward.<br />I have become quite insular but my partner understands.I have days where I feel so blue I don't know what to do and dont want to be here anymore but the next day I might feel full of positivity so I know my sadness comes in waves.<br />Sadness is my friend as well as my enemy. I have learnt to recognise it,allow it, but not give into it.<br /> All I can say to others is keep fighting,never give in.Ask for help if you need it or take time to yourself if you need it,your needs matter. <br />Each day is a new adventure and I tell myself "I can do this". Most days I believe it too but on the days I don't believe it and I give into the sadness I don't beat myself up anymore,I know that I have to feel it and then put it back in it's box so that it doesn't rule me.<br />The path still stretches out in front of you so keep walking it one step at a time, no need to run nor is there any need to turn around and go back,just keep walking head high with oxygen in your lungs.....breathe....it's all we have really.<br /> Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8847623571218447022.post-85605182211375621662018-09-30T20:40:23.240+01:002018-09-30T20:40:23.240+01:00What if you do open up and nobody listensWhat if you do open up and nobody listensAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8847623571218447022.post-61103759525329081762018-09-20T02:28:35.902+01:002018-09-20T02:28:35.902+01:00after reading all the comments, I am shocked to fi...after reading all the comments, I am shocked to find out so many feel the way I do my depression /sadness began 21 yrs ago when my only son, my baby, took his life, then in the following 3 yrs I lost a sister, 2 brothers, my stepfather, an aunt I was very close to, and I adopted my sons daughter raised her for 20 yrs, went thru 2 pregnancies with her, and then she just on impulse got involved w/ her birth mother who is a spiteful hateful person and had thrown away her babies like trash and now thinks she wears the crown of mother of the year.I am not allowed to contact my daughter, by her choice, and have not been allowed to have any contact with the 2 babies I helped deliver, I am 72 and see no purpose left in my life, my husband lives in another state and has a girlfriend, my 2 surviving girls , well one just can rarely make time and the other tries her best but she has a very busy life, everyday I pray I can just go to sleep and not wake up, nothing brings me joy anymore. Thanks for letting me vent Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8847623571218447022.post-84596243828858462102018-09-15T05:18:55.797+01:002018-09-15T05:18:55.797+01:00WHEN THE BURDENS OF LIFE BECOME HEAVY, WHEN TRIALS...WHEN THE BURDENS OF LIFE BECOME HEAVY, WHEN TRIALS TEST ONE''S FAITH, WHEN PAIN, SORROW, AND DESPAIR CAUSE THE LIGHT OF HOPE TO FLICKER AND BURN LOW, COMMUNICATION WITH OUR HEAVENLY FATHER PROVIDES PEACE.<br />"President Thomas S. Monson"on the blessing of prayer - "The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints"Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8847623571218447022.post-88928136278200837732018-09-14T11:37:59.844+01:002018-09-14T11:37:59.844+01:00"The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Sai..."The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints" can help find the Mormon missionaries in your area or log on to lds.org Heavenly Father is a merciful God pray with a sincere heart believing that he will help you, Jesus Christ lives and because of His atonement everything is possible. When the missionaries give you the Book of Mormon read it because you will find answer to every problem in this life, it will bring you closer to God, it will bring peace to your soul, it will transform your life for good.... there is a power in the Book of Mormon please read it.<br />Me too have been tried and tested in this life...but after much tribulations blessing comes at the end..Heavenly Father gave me line upon line precept upon precept a little here a little there...He can soften your heart and enlighten your mind as you listen hear and obey that still small voice even the Holy Spirit telling you that you are a child of God. Please remember that every soul is worth in the sight of God, He loves us more than we can ever imagine, He is willing to help us but we have to help ourselves too. Be prayerful because it is the most powerful shield against the fiery dart of the adversary. Be thankful for the gift of life because not all spirit received a body like us. I am so grateful for all the trials in my life without them I will not be strong, God gave me weaknesses so that I will know how to humble myself before Him. I love my Heavenly Father and my Savior Jesus Christ so thankful to know that I am a daughter of a king I will endure and will have a wonderful journey home.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com