tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8847623571218447022.post6483112960082194159..comments2024-03-28T05:08:20.305+00:00Comments on Daveswordsofwisdom.com: Domestic Violence Awareness Month - October 2013Dave Hedgeshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07768336193428300898noreply@blogger.comBlogger62125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8847623571218447022.post-56973948415924108192013-11-18T17:25:54.408+00:002013-11-18T17:25:54.408+00:00Get out he won't change. There is something w...Get out he won't change. There is something wrong with him. Not youAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8847623571218447022.post-8751430331046343422013-11-01T07:29:55.341+00:002013-11-01T07:29:55.341+00:00Yes how true in jan I defended my self dude got sc...Yes how true in jan I defended my self dude got scratch on eye cops arrested me for simple assault literally made me look bad handcuffs n shackles now im like 120 lb girl n husband was in Marine corps n an ex correction officer I have no self defense training cops show up I have torn up sweatshirt exposing pretty much everything story he gave must been a great one charged me simple assault while detained bruises show up cop say if more show next cpl days call he take pics of bruises I slept first day at my brother woke up next day hurt bad went er I have 2 ribs broke in 2 places so 4 breaks total n a punctured lung told hospital it was de beat n assured me called officer handlin my case well guess they didn't care no one showed up for injuries n severe pain for 3 months I still had charges n court deal with n possiblity of jail because of his status so if u defend urself n the man has right status u never gonna win i guess next time ill not raise finger n let him finish the job in this position I face I leave im threated if I stay I either die or will have life time record n he relishes in this holds it against me right this moment I have bite on arm n he said go ahead I tell em u hit me punch me n hell make marks on himself I dont stand a chance in heAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8847623571218447022.post-17015337286920247132013-10-31T21:31:13.770+00:002013-10-31T21:31:13.770+00:00You are so young! DO NOT STAY - THIS BEHAVIOUR IS...You are so young! DO NOT STAY - THIS BEHAVIOUR IS NOT NORMAL. GET AWAY AND GET AWAY NOW!!!! There are places to help you - call them!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8847623571218447022.post-71321595665784253392013-10-31T21:08:21.429+00:002013-10-31T21:08:21.429+00:00I helped my twin get out of a emotionally draining...I helped my twin get out of a emotionally draining and physical relationship. His ex girlfriend was a beautiful woman ,kind,sweet to his family and willing to help out with all our family stuff. One night he wasn't answering his phone so I went to his apartment to check on him. He was laying outside. He was unconscious. I went into the apartment to call 911and she was laying on the couch eating chips and watching tv. I couldn't believe it I asked if she knew where my twin was and she started crying sating that he yelled at her and left. So I called the cops and tried to wake up my twin he was coughing blood but started responding. When the ambulance got there his voice was broken he couldn't speak had broken ribs and a head fracture. She almost killed him when the cops went inside his girl had slit her wrists and attacked the police officer with the knife saying that he(the officer) was trying to kill her. Wow.. Well after this my twin opened up about how for the last couple years she had been abusing him. If she didn't attack the officer they would have never believed that she could have done that. So women have over powered men so this month is about both sexes. My twin is an mma fighter and registered boxer. He has never raised his hand to a woman but he has been attacked by a woman and almost killed sometimes all it takes is someone who cares to notice that something is wrong.it was almost his death that drove him to leave this perfect woman. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8847623571218447022.post-87861047464467408242013-10-31T19:45:00.708+00:002013-10-31T19:45:00.708+00:00I was in the same situation, even though i left i ...I was in the same situation, even though i left i still copped it from him. Saying everything that i said about him with verbal abuse was not true. I still don,t feel safe when i am home alone i always keep my house locked because he is one i can never trust again.My dvo runs out soon but will be having another one on him, I,m finished with him because i don,t want him in my life again and i have met someone that treats me well and takes me to places i have never been to before.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8847623571218447022.post-76470734032646702562013-10-30T23:54:33.996+00:002013-10-30T23:54:33.996+00:00Please do NOT stay.... U need to seek help thru Ye...Please do NOT stay.... U need to seek help thru Yellow Brick House & or VICTIM SERVICES within your community. GGoogle or look up in Government Blue pages. <br />They helped me get out of a 17 year abusive relationship also. <br /><br />You can do it... <br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8847623571218447022.post-86217422026472621322013-10-30T23:16:02.198+00:002013-10-30T23:16:02.198+00:00U are an asshole sonofabitch...abused women should...U are an asshole sonofabitch...abused women should have the right to slap back without threat of jail!!! been. there done that.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8847623571218447022.post-43299883403661440752013-10-30T18:53:17.639+00:002013-10-30T18:53:17.639+00:00Dear wife beater, I am married to wonderful God fe...Dear wife beater, I am married to wonderful God fearing man who carries me on his hands. He loves me and he treats me with respect. God honours him for that. He is respected and blessed beyond measure. He is a strong courageous man and I feel safe with him where ever we go. We are best friends and I will cook and clean and support him wherever I can. We have a covenant before God not a partnership. We have great sex and flirt with each other all the time. We stand as one and are blessed as one. We pray together, play playstation together and indulge in chocolate together. It is amazing, beaitiful and sooo much fun. He is what you would call a man. The very image of God. You made in that same image. I pray God gives you a chance to repent, before you get dragged off to hell and get tormented for eternity. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8847623571218447022.post-71222120914632386152013-10-30T08:56:18.809+00:002013-10-30T08:56:18.809+00:00Was also abused, physically, mentally, emotionally...Was also abused, physically, mentally, emotionally you name it I got all. Thrown out of the house at odd hours and would return after being assured he would change and begged for mercy so many times. The last time he told me to go I did and never returned. That was three years ago after 22 years of marriage. I'm glad I did it. They never change. I had no idea what a good night sleep felt like, now that I do I would never give that freedom away for anyone.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8847623571218447022.post-61682069448927737042013-10-30T08:25:53.475+00:002013-10-30T08:25:53.475+00:00Don't go back! They never change, any change,...Don't go back! They never change, any change, if any ,is not long lived and fake. Went through abuse and promises of better along with sorrow and regret for 14 years and still stayed the same. Im better now i'm not brainwashed by him anymore! Bless you! =)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8847623571218447022.post-73991146384959410922013-10-30T06:39:33.062+00:002013-10-30T06:39:33.062+00:00Not one of the post I read was a man getting beate...Not one of the post I read was a man getting beaten by a woman, what's up with that? they're over 28 percent of men that get beat up by there female and do not say a word about it because of their pride or whatever. Amercans have a segregated boat opinion about abuse against; but what about the other way? Think about that. and another thing to think about is there more female felons then male felons. I do however, I think it is really too bad that women do get beat on and abused .Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8847623571218447022.post-3992644156763837152013-10-30T06:37:22.820+00:002013-10-30T06:37:22.820+00:00Was also in a physical,verbal,and sexually abusive...Was also in a physical,verbal,and sexually abusive relationship with my first husband 4 years,had to bury 2 baby boys that were beaten out of me,have now been with my loving husband no.2 for 18 years,so thankful I got out alive Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8847623571218447022.post-16501813176944041482013-10-30T06:16:04.014+00:002013-10-30T06:16:04.014+00:00I left mine too. He blamed me for everything. I st...I left mine too. He blamed me for everything. I still struggle with letting go even though its safer for my daughter and I. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8847623571218447022.post-68859044804765095962013-10-29T20:02:40.061+00:002013-10-29T20:02:40.061+00:00Karma's a BITCH! You WILL get what's comin...Karma's a BITCH! You WILL get what's coming to you in the end...just remember that ASSHOLE!!!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8847623571218447022.post-17875637549521762122013-10-29T18:53:12.820+00:002013-10-29T18:53:12.820+00:00My daughter was in what we thought was a secure, l...My daughter was in what we thought was a secure, loving relationship. Truth be told...he was a married man with 4 kids. He was a medical doctor...someone who took an oath to protect. Once she found out, she broke the relationship off. 7 weeks later he followed her to a new relationships home...words were exchanged....he pulled out a gun...and shot her! Then turned the gun on himself. In hindsight, what ee thought was a good relationship was actially a very posessive one. All women should beware. You are your own person....no one owns you! On behalf of Lindsay if telling her story saves one person...it is worth sharing.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8847623571218447022.post-21651942129057517712013-10-28T12:41:46.688+00:002013-10-28T12:41:46.688+00:00Iv neen there this thanksgivin will b a year i bro...Iv neen there this thanksgivin will b a year i broke free lots scares n mental abuse but the day after i fought my x off and his mom allmost strangled me to death next day i jumped out of movin vehical goin 45 mph a lady called cops thay showed up at house n i finally asked for help n have been happy now my son has his mommy bak n I'm not 10 feet under thanks to god n the cops if u really wanna leave talk to cops n if u can't lik i couldn't than if u hav friends tell um to help there even hot lines there's women shelters for u and ur kids i can try n help or at least talk to n listen i no how it feels my name is dawn salcido look me up we can talk Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8847623571218447022.post-76233138609698997092013-10-28T12:35:34.103+00:002013-10-28T12:35:34.103+00:00God bless you and be happy.God bless you and be happy.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8847623571218447022.post-25199556710471789122013-10-28T08:56:41.413+00:002013-10-28T08:56:41.413+00:00I went with a freind and now he says im cheating. ...I went with a freind and now he says im cheating. He offered me on Craigslist to people for sexual favors lies about it and then says he loves me how do I break free Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8847623571218447022.post-17362878697953210762013-10-28T08:52:30.596+00:002013-10-28T08:52:30.596+00:00I'm in a 17 year emotional and mental relation...I'm in a 17 year emotional and mental relationship I'm scared to leave he says its my fault checks my email reads my texts plz help I fear I'm lost forever Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8847623571218447022.post-65987569360584848172013-10-28T07:57:41.077+00:002013-10-28T07:57:41.077+00:00men real men dont hit women.only cowards hit women...men real men dont hit women.only cowards hit womenAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8847623571218447022.post-63466382945270553852013-10-28T07:52:52.394+00:002013-10-28T07:52:52.394+00:00U may think it's hard to leave.I to was like t...U may think it's hard to leave.I to was like that.but I walked away in the end.better to have a life then to have it taken from me.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8847623571218447022.post-24471345509481558402013-10-27T09:04:30.876+00:002013-10-27T09:04:30.876+00:00Thats the way to tell him. Coward of all cowards. ...Thats the way to tell him. Coward of all cowards. Karma is a bitchAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8847623571218447022.post-72549263752024942522013-10-26T14:07:10.279+01:002013-10-26T14:07:10.279+01:00So sadSo sadAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8847623571218447022.post-39304915427752601662013-10-26T08:24:13.669+01:002013-10-26T08:24:13.669+01:00my wife was abused by two husbands and she says th...my wife was abused by two husbands and she says the third time is the charm and that's me they are lucky I don't havea hitman to hire im Italian and they would be wearing cement shoesAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8847623571218447022.post-47265376643904219012013-10-26T03:12:18.436+01:002013-10-26T03:12:18.436+01:00You asked so I will respond. You have to change th...You asked so I will respond. You have to change the way u feel about urself. You will seek out men with this type of behavior until you grow your self-esteem, and start to love yourself. If you don't respect u how could u expect anyone else to. Counseling is a good place to start. Usually when we allow ourselves to take that abuse there is some thing deep down inside that is the root of our self worth. You deserve more and always remember that the Lord is there call on him. God BlessAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com