Truly! Do not allow the black holes of emotional need suck you down into their vortex. If the partner in your relationship is not putting any equity into the relationship and only taking, then you need to minimize your losses and cut them loose! The analogy above is correct, only the circumstances are changed to suit the situation.
I recently set a boundary just last week (which was very uncomfortable for me) they showed up in my driveway yesterday unannounced and uninvited! Uhhhg! Maybe i am the problem by allowing it! Duh!
I have closed my account a man that I had been seeing, came to find out that he was seeing three woman, I'm sorry but I'm nobody's fool he seemed like he was a deceit guy even a friend of his was honest enough to tell me, but I kind of expected it certain signs, so I closed the account
So true!!!
ReplyDeleteTruly! Do not allow the black holes of emotional need suck you down into their vortex. If the partner in your relationship is not putting any equity into the relationship and only taking, then you need to minimize your losses and cut them loose! The analogy above is correct, only the circumstances are changed to suit the situation.
ReplyDeleteEasier said than done, sometimes!
ReplyDeleteAMEN !!!
ReplyDeleteI recently set a boundary just last week (which was very uncomfortable for me) they showed up in my driveway yesterday unannounced and uninvited! Uhhhg! Maybe i am the problem by allowing it! Duh!
ReplyDeleteBTW.... this is not an intimate relationship, it is a family member! !!
ReplyDeleteMost time it is Family that abuses it most.
Deletetrue. dealing with someone like this will only drain you...
DeleteI have closed my account a man that I had been seeing, came to find out that he was seeing three woman, I'm sorry but I'm nobody's fool he seemed like he was a deceit guy even a friend of his was honest enough to tell me, but I kind of expected it certain signs, so I closed the account
ReplyDeleteLet us not be the one on whom others must close the account...
ReplyDeleteTo all those I work with, are friends with and LOVE
ReplyDeletegetting ready to close my account after 20 years candtdo this no more don't need to support a spouse who just keeps taking and gives nothing in return
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