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When we suffer a loss, a break-up, a painful change in our lives, we need to remember to take all the time we need to heal emotionally. Moving forwards and getting back on track with our lives doesn't take a day. It takes a lot of small steps to allow us to break free from our broken self and move on. |
Oh yes, I suffered a loss last year, and it does take time, so I'm just taking one step at a time. This person was the love of my life they were a part of me and I to them and it was so hard in the beginning I felt like a part of me had died right along with them, like I said I'm taking one day at a time this was a special person to me. I remember the day when we first met, we were attracted to each other that day
ReplyDeleteIf you are so special to this person and so attracted why is he married to another.
DeleteThey say it gets better with time, Well 13 years after losing my 19 year old daughter. It doesn"t get any eazier, You just learn to deal with it better. I was blessed with a support group that really has stood behind me even now. Don't be afraid to remember and talk to who ever will listen that helps me still. My baby girl was murdered and there is no closure. Some time remembering is all there is.....
ReplyDeleteSo sorry. I lost my son. He was such a joyful soul. I will cry for him forever;)
DeleteWhen u really loved someone from a tragic loss really any kind of loss its hard to pull yourself together especially when it was a good relationship we were friends first and then it grew from there. I lost my friend my lover, I know that the days will get easier but its a process
ReplyDeleteI loss my dad 3 weeks ago , and it fees like I just can't carry on , 5 yrs ago I lost my mom , now with both of them gone its so difficult ,it feels like a huge part of me has died with them , they say it takes time but no time will heal the heartache I feel ...
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ReplyDeleteyou never forget love ones .you always miss them.
ReplyDeleteTHIS IS FOR YOUR MY FAMILY IN P.R HOPE YOUR COULD UNDERSTAND IT YE WE WILL MISS HIM
ReplyDeleteTHIS IS FOR MY FAMILY IN P.R WE LVE YOUR ALL
ReplyDeletei lost my dad almost 2 months ago, some days i feel it has been one llooooong day. thank the lord for family and friends or i don't think i would have made it. and trust me, for me it has not gotten easier. i feel like i just go thru the motions
ReplyDeleteI LOST THE LOVE OF MY LIFE 3 WEEKS AGO TODAY, EVERY MINUTE SEEMS LIKE AN HOUR, IT IS SO HARD IN EVERY ASPECT. THE FUNERAL WAS HARD, LEAVING HIM ALONE FELT SO WRONG.
ReplyDeleteI lost the love of my life Jan 31, 2013, suddenly to unknown causes, and it only gets worse with time, so far. I guess eventually the pain I feel will subside, but right now, it eats away at my very soul. I have never felt so lost. I go through the motions of life because I have others who depend on me and a job but there are days that as much as I hate to say this none of that matters and I just want to stay in bed and shut the rest of the world out...You never know how much love you have for someone until they are gone. I can't imagine ever loving anyone that way again.
ReplyDeleteI feel just the same, as if I am two people. The one who goes to work and functions, doing the everyday tasks and then the other who locks the door, gives in to the heartbreaking sorrow and hurt and cry. Like you I have no answer as to why my husband and love of 38 yrs was taken, much too soon in Sept 2012. Keep tallking to good friends and family, they have been the glue that holds me together and remember always, you are not alone. x
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