Monday, August 12, 2013

The Pain Of Losing A Loved One

There is no way you can ever fully express
the pain of losing a loved one.

There is no way you can make others understand
the pain you have endured.

All you can do is deal with things the best you can
and hope that those who are close to you, your
friends and family, will care enough to support you
through the toughest time in your life, for it is
during these dark times in your life that the ones
who truly care for you will step up to the mark.

16 comments:

Anonymous said...

I have lost a loved one last year and its not a day that goes by that I don't think of them, it's not the same without them, I know that we must go on but it's not easy to the love of my life AMH

Anonymous said...

I lost my brother to renal cancer 2 weeks ago. My eyes are forever filling with tears, I miss him so much.
It wasn't in the plans, we had more adventures to come..

Tresa said...

What a beautiful card. My Big Guy died on 6-8-13. Just short of our 48th wedding anniversary. We were together since we were 16yrs. old. I understand we all must die. Death of a loved one is the hardest part of living. My only solace is he is now at peace. I will always love you Tim. Love Always Tresa

liz said...

I lost my son it will be 2yrs.on the 7th of sept i miss him with all my heart every min of the day there is never a day that i dont wonder what he would be doin if he hadnt taken his own life at 25yrs old. Love you ryan. Mum.xxxxx

Trish LaBrot said...

My dear friend Analee lost her son last Dec. She is absolutely devasted. I hope her family and friends are still trying to help her cope as best as they can. She is so special to me, we met on our shared birthday at 11 years old, and I hope I am still being the good friend she needs. I Love you Analee, and I know how much you still ache for your Jon. I say a special prayer for you each and every night. I Love you
Trish

Anonymous said...

I lost someone very dear to me awhile back. My brother. I just can't relate to anyone how much it hurts and how I still cry. I love all of my siblings but this one was a little more special to me. He helped me a lot when I needed him. I live in a different city than where he lived and it had been a long while since he had been able to go anywhere. I needed to be the one to visit him. But I didn't. It had been several months since I had seen him before he died. I do not have a car and I had to ride with someone else going that way when I did get to see him. The last chance I would have had I was sick and didn't feel like riding that far. I feel like my heart is going to burst when I think of the way he went. He was in a hospice facility with none of his loved ones around. By the time hospice called his family and they got there he was gone. I didn't get to tell him one more time that I loved him and thank him for all he did for me. If only i could give him one more hug, one more thank you and one more I love you. I don't like hurting this way but I'm afraid if I stop hurting I'll forget him. That just can't happen.

Anonymous said...

Lost my one and only mother 14/7/13 and im so lost without her, she was only 55 :, ( gid I miss her so..

Anonymous said...

I am so sorry for your loss My Prayers be with you

Anonymous said...

I lost my son on September 15th, 2005. They say he took his own life. Tommy was 21 at the time. 'They' say the death of a child is the most painful....the suicide of a child IS the most painful. I feel your pain. I don't know my UL whatever...so no choice but to go anonymous....MaMa Rosie

Anonymous said...

I lost my husband after being together 27 years and only away from each other four days out of the 27 years .we were together and did everything together.this is the man that introduced me to his best friend jesus Christ.our life was beautiful even with ups and downs and since his death I haven't been the same ,I don't even no myself ,I am so lost without him .SO TO EACH OF YOU MY HEART GOES OUT TO YOU ALL .MUCH LOVE AND PRAYERS TO EACH OF YOU .FROM BONNIE BROWN

Diana Lombardi said...

I just lost my mom at 53 on aug 19 2013 really hard to deal with

Julie Locke said...

Here I am sat crying at ur posts. My hearts go out to u all. I lost my grandad 18.06.13. I am a nurse and deal with end of life care frequently and I know about bereavment process. But why can't I cope. Can't talk to anyone. I sit at his graveside asking all the unanswered questions. But nothing - no reply . I love u grandad and will make sure nan is ok x

Anonymous said...

I lost my mom April 13,2013 its been 4 months she not just my mom she was my best friend im so lost with out her she the one I could talk to about anything I feel so alone no one no what it's like to loss a loved one until they have lost someone my heart goes out to all of you

Anonymous said...

I'm so sorry to read of your loss. I'm going through the struggle of the horrible disease of cancer with my Mother where there is no possible positive outcome besides a miracle and when she does die she will be going to heaven.

Melissa S. said...

My mother passed 02/28/13. I am still very lost. It is words and posts such as this that truly helps. Nothing will ever take the pain completely. But reading these make it better go thru the day.

Anonymous said...

I lost my oldest son August 8,2013 to a drug overdose it hurts alot . I tried for the past 2 years to get him off the drugs. God has been my strength and comfort through this. I don't ask why it happened I know God took him home with him and in the end my tragedy was a gift to two people who needed a kidney and liver.God is awesome and all powerful he knows what he is doing even if at the time we don't understand it. My son isn't having to fight with the issues drug addiction brings anymore he is in heaven smiling down on all he loved.