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LOL, That is so true and sometimes we keep trying because we love and they don't.
Its being human
way of life
Yes so true. But we keep loving anyway so not to become like them..
Yes it's so true !.
I'm not perfect. but did more for someone than anyone could do in a lifetime. And I'm still questioned.... I don't think it is me... BUT THANK U SO MUCH FOR HELPING ME BE ONE OF THE BEST... MIMI IS BEAUTIFUL... I LOVE MORE THAN THEY TEXT... LOL... BUT TRUE
When do you know it is time though?
Sometimes we really don't realize that we have done so much, because it is from the heart, before we see that a person just took advantage and did not appreciate or care for the person as long as it suited them; Being kind is one thing but being a fool is another. True friends or loves; say thank you or show appreciation as they are their for you in the time of need.
.....And what is more painful, that we look for excuses for them....
ive been there I took a man thati was engaged to 13 yrs,ago but it didn't work out then but back then we didn't part ways on a bad note.last march he found me on FB& requested me we started talking again long story short about a month later I moved him in w/me the biggest reason was he lived in the city were we use to live together 60 miles 1 way frm where I live now,he didn't have anything.not only did we pretty much for the most part picked up from where we left off but he now wasliving out in the country (where hes always wanted to live)but until he got a job I GAVE HIM EVERYTHING.i bought him expensive clothes,computer parts,KING CRAB DINNERS.HE NEVER LIVED SO GOOD his words&i knew it too,aboutJuly he started acting funny,i ended up getting him a job at Dunkin Donuts at management level to start.sorry TO MAKE A REAL LONG STORY SHORTER....he meet a 25 yr old PREGNANT(already)@D.D at the time I didn't know.he started coming up w/the stupiest excuses as to why he thought he had to move out& wait....HE FELT WE WERE MOVING TOO FAST!!!after I gave &asked him ovr&overif he was sure b 4 he movedin.so basically the last 2 months he lived here he slept on my son's floor(who loves&adores him&he promised my son tht he would still b in his life&NOT break his heart)he moves outon Sept.1st as iam leavin for work.THIS MAN WAS NEVER LIKE THIS!i never got closure,i guess she ended up having the baby he puts his name on B.C &I guess there BOTH right back under the ROCK RIGHT WHERE I FOUND HIM!cuz iam a good,loyal,faithful,independent woman,I CAN DO BETTER.HE KNOWS HELOST THE BEST THING HESEVER HAD&EVER WILL HAVE!!!!!THANKS FOR READING BTW make no mistake he ripped my heart out
its still me just wanted to finish up by saying he didn't keep his promise to my son who has never had a dad in his life&this man has known this since forever but my son's ok.like I said he did rip my heart out& I didn't get closure or straight answers nothing but LIES however KARMA'S a bitch and he'll get his thanks again
Sounds like you a sucker, and he used you, not one but twice. Maybe you should do some investigating before bring another idiot into your sons life, so he isn't effected by your bad choices.
I understand you, and you are not a sucker. Many, many people get sucked in slowly and it doesn't take long before they forget who they really are, and realize that that person would never have let another take advantage of them in this way. Thank God you you remember who you were and who you will be again. So many people don't have the strength to admit that they were taken for ride and flounder around try desperately to hold on to a relationship that broke their soul in the first place. A starved person will take any crumbs thrown at them for survival. You can wear this experience like a badge of honor, because it taught you some things that you will take with you the rest of life. Know that a person teaches another how to treat them by what they are willing to put up with from another. You have said no more! Pick yourself up and carry on with the knowledge that is the last time anyone ever will take advantage of you in this manner. You Go Girl!!!As for the comment below your post from the "know it all" Be careful to sit in that self righteous judgement chair you put yourself in. Did that make you feel a little better by trying to make the girl feel even worse than she does already? Only one who has sadness inside their soul would jump at the chance to give it away so freely to another. Think about that the next time you decide to give advise
if I didn,t the other ones wudn,t even try,,,,,xx.T.XX
SORRY BUT YOUR BAD CHOICES ARE YOUR CHOICE OF WORDS
AND YOUR THE ONE THATS THE SUCKER GIVING UR LITTLE SENTENCES LIKE THAT!!! me again.T.mwahhxxx
so,so,so,true fits me to a t i have done it all my life and i think it's time way pass time that i put a stop to letting people treating me like shit, they can go jump right in the middle of that ocean that i have ben jumping over!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I'm so sorry about all that you endured. The guy that broke your heart, his name is Armando is it?? God bless and take care.
I understand perfectly!! I've let direct members of my own family crap on me over and over again (lie,slander,deceit) until I had enough!! I made a decision that "no matter what" I deserve to be treated exactly as I treated them! Which did not happen. I gave them plenty of time to give a lill back and NOTHING but BS did I get back. So I made up my mind "NO MORE" that said it bothers me to no end but I realized that without all that BS in my life i'm a happier person. I don't have any drama in my life, no one to try and scam me, no back stabbing either!! Ya got to let go!!! My life was a mess with these people in it.
You've been hurt and what he did wasn't right. I believe if we give off anger towards someone, we bring anger back to ourselves. If we give love, we receive love. Happiness, etc. So don't let this guy destroy you and your son, because there are( believe it or not) nice kind loving people out there. bring in the type of person you want in your life. Chin up and done worry about closure he isn't worth it.
There is a reason God doesn't want people living together before they are married...he wants us to make a commitment to each other-not just try it and see what happens. Love is not a feeling or lots of giving...it is a decision and a commitment to each other. God wants us to make sure we have committed to each other through marriage before we live together as man and wife because that way he can prevent you from getting hurt. He is like our father and only wants the best for us and for us to follow his rules so we wont get hurt -so he can protect us. You seem like a loving giving person...make sure next time it is only to someone who wants to take care of you and your son and respect you enough to commit to you and your son permanently through marriage before moving in together. This will also prevent your son from getting hurt also. Good luck :) God loves you. Start praying for him to help you meet the man you should marry.
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