Thursday, June 20, 2013

You Can't Always Rely On Others

I learned the hard way that you can't always count on
others to respect my feeling, even when i respect theirs.

being a good person to others will not always result
in them returning that goodness back to you.

You can only control the things you do and allow your
actions and words to speak volumes about the type
of person YOU are.

As for the people in your life, you must choose to accept
them for who they are or choose to walk away.

16 comments:

Anonymous said...

Most the time you need to walk away....especialy when they don't care how you feel or enjoy making you feel sad and miserable....they don't want you to enjoy your life!!!

Anonymous said...

That's so true. As hard as it is to walk away u have to respect- yourself and your feelings and don't let anyone take advantage of how good and kind you do be. Even when you love someone with all your heart if there not treating you good you have to walk away because it will only get worse through time. If you walk away early they might be able to change before its too late. But if you stay you will see that they won't change and everything you do can't change them. Only they can change thereselfs. also they will try to control and take every ounce of happiness from you and still you will have no choice to leave. I've learned this lesson the hard way and still have to face what I needed to do at the start. I still don't regret not leaving straight away. I am glad I stayed because I have learned many lessons. But still I couldn't see them lessons until I left and became stronger and I do also wish that I hadn't to take so long to take heed that I have to respect- my own feelings

Anonymous said...

This is so true,but its so difficult especially for me;walking away has been the most difficult thing. Yet,each moment has been filled with pain and hurt. I know walking away is the best thing but I've not gotten the courage to let go yet.

Anonymous said...

True, but you must walk with your head
up high and think positive. You need to be the better person than the rest.

Anonymous said...

It is very hard to walk away. It took me years before I finally built up the courage to leave. Then when I did leave it was the heartbreak afterwards. I didn't get over it straight away. I would cry nearly all the time. But they say time heals. Now after a year I feel more confident and strong and I realise that I should have left earlier. There is still sometimes wen I feel sad but I don't feel like crying anymore. I still find it hard to let go fully but I know through time that will come to me. Trust in god nothing is impossible to him. He listens to everyones tears and holds the brokenhearted close to him

Anonymous said...

Hmmmm..... Thanks a lot for that. God bless you

Anonymous said...

I walked away from a situation many years ago because I could no longer deal with the hurt and pain...i made the mistake of allowing that person back into my life after 10 years of peace and having a life...9 mths later I have had to make the decision to yet again walk away...not only for my sake but to protect those around me...i have learnt that people rarely change and you can't change people who don't want to...allow yourself happiness...there is no shame in taking back your life.

Anonymous said...

I am going through that right now but I doint cry as much I'm trusting in god all the way I just want to say thanks I though it was only me going through now I know I can make it and may god RICHELY bless all of you

Edward Salk said...

Just remember that society sucks and you'll be fine...

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Anonymous said...

June 20th reply: I have in your situation and to the point of embarrassing myself in public. It took me a year to stop dreaming or crying. What a waste of time. I thanked God for seeing me through

Anonymous said...

I am such a loving person how do I walk away but I know its damaging my Heart so much pain how much more can I take .I tried to wait on change to come so long how can I stay?

Anonymous said...

if you want someone to change to some character you like,and that person cant just walk away for am sure that's not love you feel now, its more of compromise




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Anonymous said...

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Anonymous said...

Alway's remember that all good thing's fall apart for btr things to fall into place! And no matter where you are someone somewhere is thinking ov you!