Monday, June 3, 2013

It's Better To Cry

It's better to cry than build up your anger
because your anger will hurt you and those around you
whilst your tears will flow through your soul
and cleanse your heart

18 comments:

Anonymous said...

I Feel so sad it hurts. It is building up so much anger inside me. Sometimes though as much as I hurt I cannot seem to cry and get the tears out. I don't mean to be angry. I'd love god would give me the strength I need and the courage. God my life seems so hard. I just don't know what to do anymore. I've gone through so much hurt and keep facing it head on. I know I can get through hard times with gods help but its hard when your getting through it. Please pray for me :(

Diana Diaz said...

Amen

Anonymous said...

I pray in Jesus' Name that you heal

Anonymous said...

God help this child of yours. Let feel urlove go
Opinion the door of your heart to God.He just waiting on u you to give him the wheel. Prayer for u. Love

Anonymous said...

GOD has helped me through so many things. I will never give up on GOD, because he never gives up on anyone. He LOVES us ALL.

Anonymous said...

god has done so many things I will never stop believing in him he will always love us

Anonymous said...

You have to be patient and wait upon God, he will see you through...............then things will change.

Anonymous said...

My advice to you is always think positive don't be afraid to face the trail and circumstances in your life because God is always there guiding and helping you to stand and fight it all.Be strong in God's faith and everything will be find..God loves us everyday...prayer is the best sword in our life ok...

ann said...

you are not alone, i have the same feelings since my lovely husband, my soul mate, and my best friend past away most of his family do not talk to me. i feel i have had my share of hard times and i cant cope anymore i am so alone :(

Anonymous said...

I lost my husband my best friend an soul mate feel so much lonlness.We lost our son in 08 so was still healing from that.but I am so blessed to no my lord jesus is here with me.thank you lord for always being hear with me.Ipray that the healing will soon be present for all of us.

wendy said...

You feel sad and depressed and hopeless...It sucks...I feel your pain...wish we could talk out our problems it does help...you are not alone...

Anonymous said...

I lost my nephew that I raised as my son when my sister his mom passes away over the same thing.. I set n cry asking God why him he had two children girls age 3 when he passed had his funeral on her birthday she turned 4 n his baby turned 1 two months after he passed away he had his life to live watch his children grow I've lived mine I raised him n his sister... All I do now is cry set n stare at his pic all day he was my life the son I could never have I'll never b the same again time nor distance will ever change my love for him....

Anonymous said...

I also was once there and very lost and angry at so many hurts in my life, and what I have learned is to channel the anger in a healthy way until I have no more anger. It's healthy to feel angry however left inside can be very destructive. Visualize the person you are angry with in front of you, and openly express your anger with as much honesty possible. You will be released from the pain if done honestly. It doesn't make sense rationally but it works. As long as you are released from the anger, the other person is not important. Lots of love and encouragement in your journey. God bless!

Anonymous said...

Hi anonymous#1,#2&#3,ann,wendy,
I want to say that you are not unloveable, unworthy, nor should you be un reachable to make you untouchable. I bet you have the biggest hearts! When you are an encourager, many seem to forget we need it too! When we disappear, others think-theyre just off helping someone, she/he was laughing with me other day! Well, we care more for others than self. I found one answer, one only-do what Jesus did. Feed the hungry, clothe the poor and comfort the widow. Get into a Bible-Believing church, one that doesn't pet you, but pricks ya, challenges you. I bet if you think about it-you probably are bored-you need stimulation, creativity, and know that if you have not asked Jesus into your heart-do so, do so now and immediately you will see how much you mean to God, I don'teven know how got here-but when I saw your posts, I felt your pain. www.emergingfrombroken.com helped me realize that I had a false definition of love for one and God at age 40-42 took me close to Him and showed me(still is showing me!) who I really am and I am living MY life that He pre-destined for me. If you are grieving Ann, grieve honey. Everyones time is different, those who say 'get over it' well...get over them! If people aren't adding to your life, they are sucking the life out. It's time to re-evaluate friends and 'family' and if they are for you, they're in your hell with you now. If they are not and don't like 'messy, or too complicated' have mercy on them when they fall-cause they will indeed fall. Then they may or may not acknowledge how they hurt you but they will realize the depth of your pain. You will love on them, compassionately-because that's what you do, it's who you are! Hurting people hurt people...it's not personal unless you let whats outside your 'boat' in. You can do it, you can live and live happy fulfilled and purpose will come, I promise with God, nothing(I mean NOTHING) is impossible). My heart beats for you to take another chance on HOPE! samanthav@ameritech.net I am confident you are more than conquerors, email if need an ear. Praying for you! I was where you are coming from too btw, it's sooooo lonely, and yet-so important for a specific reason!

Anonymous said...

to the first writer in this column... I admire your ability to be honest about how you are feeling.and how dark things look to you right now. Despair is so close to so many, many people, and that is a scary, lonely place to be. Healing will come as you learn to more and more cling to God and all you know Him to be. Tears are God's delightful blessings that come to wash away some of the deep pain, and allow you to see the sun. Don't despair - tomorrow is always a new day, full of new mercies - straight from the Hand of God to your heart. May you feel His peace seep into your heart and refresh the hurting places there.

I am sorry I do not know how to post this other than 'anonymous'.

Teresa Nutter said...

I will pray for you. I feel your pain , but with me, I cry all fhe time. I dont know who you are and that doesn't matter the least bit. Please just know you have someone right here that will have you in my thoughts and prayers. God bless you and I hope all works out for you. I am crying a tear for you as I write this. Hope it helps you.

Anonymous said...

So much pain, passing of loved ones, choices made now regretful... I am there with all of you as is everyone that lives. I do not know how I have now made it into the "golden years", I honestly do not. So many times and tribulations that I told myself were just too much to handle. But here I am writing to this new social "network" that is in our everyday lives. Lemme just say this... Last week I went to a funeral of which a cousin decided that it was too much to handle to live. This man in his 40's, grew up in a home of where there was never a cap or top on money. Daddy owns a huge business, nothing was ever denied to my cousin. Toddler, maybe 3 years old. Absolutely Beautiful!Wife that jumped at every whim, yet life got old. WHAT??? Got old. As far as my mind can go with it all is this...
If everyday is so easy that we do not have bad times, rotten luck, a ticket, a zit, an idiot that cuts you off on the road.... then you really do not know what "good times" are all about. Please, if there are no bad times then there cannot be good times and all becomes mundain and boring. Embrace the bad, pray for the good and Keep both of those in your mind and in your heart. God Bless all.

Anonymous said...

Think I should take note of this coz it takes a lot for me to cry but I do bottle it up and do tend to take it out on loved ones